Slumber off

By mean mommy - 16/07/2019 12:30

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Today, I was hosting a slumber party for my daughter, but I ended it abruptly and demanded that every child be picked up. Several pissed off parents and a sobbing daughter later, I’m the most hated. I made them leave after two of the girls bragged about losing their virginity. They’re 12. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 691
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Same thing different taste

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So you punished everyone for something two 12-year-olds may or may not have done? They could a) be lying and b) even if they're not, that's a cue to talk to their parents about your rightful concerns. 12-year-olds who brag about having sex just do so because they've been taught by all of society and media that men sexually desiring them is their permission to exist and the ultimate goal to follow and in some cases the only kind of affection they receive. That's sad enough, but at least you realistically taught the girls that ALL of them will get punished because you disagree with SOME of them and how they think they need to express sexuality. Instead of taking the opportunity to talk to your kid and what she thinks about their behavior and her own self-worth.

as long as it wasn't your daughter, I would have left it go, then quietly mentioned it to the girls parents later

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Traveling_Book 9

Lot of hate getting thrown at OP. Was it the best move? No. I get why you did it though. You want to protect and shield your daughter from those negative influences.

Susan Yee 9

That’s too overly-dramatic. You should have just secretly listen to them, following day you tell their parents. Then you have one-on-one conversation about sex with your daughter.

Made them leave for talking about losing their virginity? that was a prime teaching moment for your daughter and you to have a serious discussion about. Just because they bragged doesn't mean she would have wanted to do the same thing. Or any of the other girls. I'd have notified the parents of the other kids there to see what they would want to do... You overreacted...

Susan Yee 9

Hopefully after this your daughter still has friends and won’t get bullied.

Wow. You really handled that badly. Now your daughter will never trust you. ydi