So young, so jaded

By Anonymous - 24/02/2021 13:59

Today, like every day, I scrolled through my social media feeds, seeing happy couples, people buying houses and landing their dream jobs. I, on the other hand, am a single 23 year-old man in a dead end job, who still lives with his parents. FML
I agree, your life sucks 646
You deserved it 626

Same thing different taste

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You're not alone, but Facebook makes people feel alone like this. It's a known problem, with two causes. First, people tend to post all the happy, glamorous stuff going on in their lives. They're much less likely to post about their struggles, loneliness, etc. Second, Facebook curates which posts you'll see in your "top posts" feed: Negative posts get buried, and positive posts are widely seen. Thanks to these two things, Facebook is full of unhappy people who all think that everyone else is happy. You're not alone.

No shame living with your parents at 23. When I got divorced from the first wife, I moved back in with my parents for a bit, and I was a few years older than you and had kids. I have kids your age still living in my house and they are happy in their lives right now. Like Jon stated, go for what makes you happy, not what makes others happy.

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Quitting social media will improve your happiness and overall mental health, and comparison is the thief of joy.

Nhayaa 21

The answer is in the FML. You're 23 ffs.

oh. i am 30 and jobless and live with parents. guess i have to comit some extreme steps ... you are 23 are fml-ing. i should die i guess

this is a non problem. you're 23... live a little! christ!

Do you mind working hard or are willing to? Give tree work a try I randomly did and I love it! Its fun, mentally and physically challenging with lots of opportunity for creative problem solving, I travel to places I wouldn't normally go, see amazing scenery, make a decent paycheck, use the skills learnt on the job to make advancements in the field, and if you work hard and eat reasonably the job will give you the physique and confident to possibly make it easier to meet girls.

bgaf2020 3

Don’t worry. It doesn’t get better. JK. It does. Maybe.. Maybe not. Idk.