Sounds like someone did not want kids but only gave you a child as a means to please you. Not a fair combination of parents for the fella. Already sense a lack of commitment from your boyfriend's response.

I mean, it sounds heartless. But, if that's not a supportive husband; what is?

I have definitely said similar things to my husband about our three kids. it's not that I don't love them but they make me want to pull my hair out at times.

Honestly, I'm glad he would drop the baby off at a safe place as opposed to a dumpster or somewhere a predator could take him. Even more so that he would do that over simply beating the baby to a pulp out of anger or frustration.... I have unfortunately come across too many reports of these things happening and it definitely affects my sleep. I still see flashes of the mugshot of the guy in the first baby related news report I read 2 years ago. This world is a sick ******* place.

Do not ask him to babysit. Ever.

give the word. they're more debt than they're worth.

Unless he actually started taking actions to do it, I don't believe he was actually being serious.