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By FriendzonedAFBoi - 23/03/2025 19:00 - United States

Today, I realized that in order to get a girl, I have to lose 100lbs and/or get facial reconstruction. If I meet a girl, we get close, I do everything to make her happy, only to be told, “I only like you as a friend.” I also get told that I’d make a “great boyfriend” yet they don’t choose me. Being overlooked sucks. FML
I agree, your life sucks 338
You deserved it 311

Same thing different taste

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Being overlooked does suck. Instead of diets and surgery, I'd highly recommend working with a therapist to increase your self-esteem. You owe yourself that much.

Wow… the other comments are just cruel. If you wanna lose weight, do it FOR YOU. Not to fit into someone’s selfish standard of attractiveness. You shouldn’t have to change who you are so that someone will like you. To hell with those girls who overlook you. Unfortunately, a lot of them will chose a 10 that will treat them like garbage instead of a less than 10 who will worship the ground they walk on. And then they preach about “i CanT fiNd a GooD mAn! Wahhhhh” I know because I used to be that girl. Don’t lose hope OP. One day, someone will see you for who you are.

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Mossy 9

Make the effort and lose weight

GoogieWithers 23

Lose the weight for yourself. The added confidence will attract a lot of girls.

Wow… the other comments are just cruel. If you wanna lose weight, do it FOR YOU. Not to fit into someone’s selfish standard of attractiveness. You shouldn’t have to change who you are so that someone will like you. To hell with those girls who overlook you. Unfortunately, a lot of them will chose a 10 that will treat them like garbage instead of a less than 10 who will worship the ground they walk on. And then they preach about “i CanT fiNd a GooD mAn! Wahhhhh” I know because I used to be that girl. Don’t lose hope OP. One day, someone will see you for who you are.

Being overlooked does suck. Instead of diets and surgery, I'd highly recommend working with a therapist to increase your self-esteem. You owe yourself that much.

To those of you saying “lOse tHe wEigHt” Let’s say he does lose weight and gets a girl. Then one day, he gets in an accident and gets severely disfigured causing him to gain weight again. Is the girl gonna leave him now because he’s no longer attractive by her selfish standards? Someone like that is not worth having in the first place. Says more about her character than him as a person. Extra weight on the body shouldn’t be measured. Character should.

People don't chose who they are attracted to. Not gender nor body form. Because of evolution reasons in the beginning of life (the offspring period) look matters a lot. It's not that there is 0% chance unless you look in a specific way, but certain things can increase the attractiveness. He can also become rich or in high status, that also works.