The opposite of vibing

By AuraOfJustice - This FML is from back in 2011 but it's good stuff - United States

Today, I was texting a girl I like. Every message she sent came ten minutes after I sent her a message. When I told her, "I've to go", she responded almost instantly with an, "OK, bye." FML
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Top comments

Maybe if you worked up the balls to talk to her in person instead of being an impersonal **** and just doing it via text, it might have a better outcome for you. That, or she just doesn't like you.

She's not interested in you, face it. Besides, it is so ******* annoying if someone keeps sending texts. Ugh.

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ChinaBabylove69 0

did you ever here the saying "she's not that into you" well get the hint dumb ass she doesn't like you! grow a pair of balls and next time you want to talk to a girl actually talk to her in person ! your such a dumb ass you really deserve it . texting a women is never the answer! talking to her in person is the answer ! seriously what would people do without texting,?

coffee_enima 0

I'm calling bs on this one. if you really are from the US you didn't just say "I've to go"

ChinaBabylove69 0

I agree! there's more to the story then that! he probably pissed her off some how! or. doesn't really like him. maybe he is a freaking stalker !

I can relate to this, it has happened to me and with my ex girlfriend. she claimed she doesn't do it on purpose but I will never know. you need to talk to the girl in person, you HAVE too.

What? Girls DO enjoy receiving texts from guys they like. There might be a slim margin who see texting as passive & simply don't love it, but many girls get all giggly & scheiße when their crush gives them special attention; texting can be personal because it's not a formality, like feeling obligated to wave hi in a school hallway.

SCOTTY_DAY 0

there are two things you can do here. take it for what it is and move on. or lie to yourself and think she's just playing hard to get. bottom line is you're not getting her.

I think people need to calm down with calling OP a' dumbass' and telling him to 'grow a pair'. Its difficult telling someone you like how you feel. So instead of acting like macho guys who have never been afraid to tell someone how they feel, take your heads out your asses and don't be so judgemental.

ChinaBabylove69 0

seriously what's wrong with me telling him that he should have talk to her in person , then texting her! please give me a ******* answer to that you ******* asshole! your probably the type to text everyone you know instead of talking to them face to face. what the matter Hun can't stand to get rejected in person ! or your the type that's afraid to say it to there face so you text like a little bitch.

I've been that girl before. The guy that liked me texted me constantly, and I could take hours to respond. After a couple of months I decided to just give him a chance since he was funny and nice (even if he was a little persistent) and we've been happily dating for 6 months, so you never know! :)

I do that all the time shes probably thinking of what to text back but you dont need to think about how to say bye