By bluevix - 11/10/2014 01:25 - United States - Stafford
bluevix tells us more.
Thank you, we're working on it together. It isn't an easy process as it is difficult not to take his disinterest personal, and I have taken it personal (especially early on)... but when you are compatible with your spouse in as many ways as we are. Whilst I may enjoy the idea of sexual intimacy more than him, at least I have someone who loves me as much as I do them. We have plenty of activities we enjoy, but he is more of the asexual type that enjoys a good cuddle versus sex. Which I have learned to enjoy more as we continue on in our marriage.
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I was in a relationship like this. I had grown up thinking I would wait for marriage but by the end of high school realized I was an atheist and then waiting seemed really silly. I'm beyond glad I didnt. My highschool boyfriend and later fiance was probably asexual, once to twice a year was more than enough for him. I think thats why early on he didnt have a problem with abstinence. I have a higher than normal sex drive. I still love him and hes a dear friend but I cannot be happy in a relationship like that. To me a marriage without sex is just roomates who may or may not raise kids together (probably not if he never wants sex). It didnt seem like such a big deal when I was in the relationship with him but now that I'm with someone who clicks with me on that level AND every thing else its like just waking up. Life is short, why settle.
I feel your pain hunny
when xray techs ask me if im pregnant I tell them, well if god forbid I am, you'd only be helping me now. lol
A lot of men actually develop low testosterone and that is the first sign. It's a relative easy fix but you might wind up with the opposite problem.
Sounds like my life :/
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I guess you're not really ****** after all...
Must be why you live in VIRGINia!