If we change something because of somebody, usually when that somebody is gone or if we have an argument with them, we go straight back to our old selves prior to change. Never change because of somebody, change because of yourself..and never let anybody disrespect you, even if it's your husband, because the truth is if he loved you for who you are he wouldn't be a douge bag he's being. Plus since you've manage to lose 20 lbs, nothing keeps you from losing him.

What a douche! Time to get a new husband.

K.I.S.S.I.N.G? More like D.I.V.O.R.C.E

First and most important is that you've done something positive for yourself and can be proud of what you achieved. He obviously has a very nasty and hurtful character. I'd loose him too if I were you

Tell him you will no longer suck, and let him figure it out.

He should love you for who you are. You don't need to change for him. If he doesn't, then leave

He's probably trying to put you down because he feels threatened. You must be looking hot now, and he hasn't changed, so he works on making sure you never get an idea that you might do better than him.

Dump his ass

You married a ******' winner.

Kick him right in the balls then take his credit card and go have a spa day. You earned it.