94- That doesn't necessarily make her a lesbian. I think you're forgetting that bisexual people exist, as people usually do. And I highly doubt he'll 'end up having sex with both of them'. Can't you see how awkward it'd be to have a threesome with your ex (who you probably still have feelings for) and their new partner?

I think it's "pansexual." Good luck OP!

A couple people I know probably would've just kicked them out, good thing you're above doing that, OP. Good on you, and I wish you the best of luck, buddy.

You are correct, #100. :3

That really is good if you to let her new girlfriend stay with you, hopefully you (or they) can find a new place soon. Are any of your friends looking for a roommate? In the meantime, I'd just try to avoid them as much as possible, but don't let it degrade your quality of life. Good luck!

I smell a threesome coming on

Not to offend anyone here but I do believe the term is demisexual, as Pansexual isn't limited to just people.

Good on you OP! I hope everything's better between you now!

(I would be the second to say) threesome lol. But if she's such an open person I would be interested to hear why you broke up and why she's not open to an open relationship with two people or something.

idk i call myself bisexual, is that wrong?

Whatever you choose to call yourself is correct, if it feels right to you!

129 - Nope. Demi is when you can only experience sexual attraction if you have an emotional connection with the person. Pan is pretty much exactly how the OP described it. But it's fairly common in the asexual community to have variations of both.

131 Just because someone is attracted to people beyond gender doesn't mean they're polyamorous. Also doesn't mean her current girlfriend or OP would find the arrangement acceptable.

129- uhhhh... "Pansexual isn't limited to just people." Yep, that's exactly how you offend people. By not googling something before you type and infer that Pansexual people want to have sex with people and trees and goats and whatever else strikes their fancy... I'm Ace, not Pan, but I have friends that are. 129 and 131- Open to genders =/= open relationships.

I like how everyone is talking about her relationship and not the fact that you let her live with you. If its your place, then why the hell would you let your ex and her partner live with you That's not being kind, its being ignorant to the fact that they are obviously taking advantage of you

Pansexual? You mean bisexual?

My thoughts exactly 150

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