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Wow, that's the sort of irreverent smartass I would be PROUD to call my friend. I'd take him over an empathetic dumbass any day. I'd rather be around people who will make me smile than the ones who will frown alongside me... Just a personal preference.
He isn't Wrong but you don't say that to a person
He's not wrong he's just an asshole.
Sorry about your grandmother OP. And that your friend was insensitive in that situation. I won't pass judgement because I don't know him. I hope he's not an ass, but some people really just don't know how to react with news like that. People just say the wrong things (guilty!)
Technically that's pretty rude
Technically you need better friends
You should've said "Technically, you're an asshole."
Op should've said something along the lines of "while that's technically true, 'everyone else' still has several years before they die. My grandma on the other hand, doesn't even have a month. But thanks for pointing that out douche."
I had a friend who said that to me once... notice the past tense? If your friend is that callous about this instance, you have to wonder what other things they have a nonchalant attitude about. I didn't wonder and I wasted 3 more years thinking that this person was a friend when really they weren't.
is it just me or it seems a bit inappropriate that you used the word" announced" on your family member dying like it's some exciting event.
Announcements can be negative too, however I agree it seems like an odd wording. We often hear that word in association with big events, so it sounds weird to "announce" someone's poor health.
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He's not wrong, but I am sorry for your situation.
Technically he's right, but it's still rude for him to say that.