Sorry to hear this op. Hopefully he's not a boyfriend still and she isn't still your best friend. I'd never would consider sleeping with any of my friends gl. That is just low to me to that. At least you found out now and not when you got married to him. It saves you the head ache in the future.

You sound like me 7 years ago when I caught my ex in a bed with a girl I went to high school with. The chick apologized hugged me then told me nothing happened. But she was naked & his pants were around his ankles. He choked me to the wall after that. Stayed with him for 5 years. Don't waste your time with a cheater. I learned the hard way.

.... Um.. Maybe that's why you ended up in this situation in the first place, honestly. If you can't stand up for yourself in THIS SHITTY situation where you should probably just have hulked out, then I doubt you do it any other time. And your best friend and BF would obviously know that best. Hopefully you can stand up enough for yourself that neither of them will hold that title after this, at the very least. Smh. Sorry that happened OP, but I think you can take this as a learning experience.

Can anyone tell me what "DFTBA" stands for in Op's title thing??

You must white because a sister would have killed somebody

Woosey. Stand up for yourself and toss those scumbags in the trash! Seriously! They obviously don't care about you. If stay with either, you're a butthole.

you are better than both of them..I am also a push over but you need to stand up for what you are worth..even if it hurts. I'm sorry that that it hurts but you are better than both of them. Don't EVER think otherwise

Op... You could just walk around the bed, drizzling gasoline.... But on second thought....pack and leave... Find someone deserving

At least you told them to get out I broke up with my boyfriend so he could be happy with my best friend he liked he better than me

monogamy is a bitch. why I prefer polygamy