Dude wow

Words cannot explain the awkwardness of the situation

Ohhh awkward but you didn't wreck their home the dad/husband did he had a family and took advantage of you and them. you will find a nice guy and you your baby and him will have a very happy life together and congratulations on your child xxxxxx

That's awful op! I'm so sorry to hear that :(

Omg that is terrible! I hope u dumped him!

no

Ouch

Wow..

cheaters.must.die

I know birth control isn't 100% effective, but this is usually because of user error. The statistical probability that birth control failed you when you were using it exactly as prescribed (at the same time, every day, never missing a pill) or using physical barriers 100% of the time is astronomical at best so Im going to assume you were irresponsible. Thank God you got a baby out of your irresponsibility and not some horrible, incurable sexual transmitted disease/infection. Its so inconsiderate of him to have unprotected sex with you and then crawl home to his wife and kids, he literally could have killed her with his irresponsibility. There are too many effective birth control methods (pills, shots, rings, condoms, sponges, patches), many that you don't even have to take everyday or every month. If a method fails take plan B, you're old enough to have sex and feel you're responsible enough to raise a child, so this shouldn't have been an issue. Honestly, there's no good reason for an unplanned pregnancy in this day and age. This situation is much worse for his wife and kids and while their lives being destroyed isn't your fault as you didn't know, maybe you should put a little more time into finding out about a man before you allow yourself to become pregnant, decide to keep his child, and decide to inconvenience yourself to show support for him. You didn't notice that in the seven months you were pregnant he didn't introduce you to his family (parents/siblings), take you to see his home, start discussing moving in together, if you're going to stay together in a relationship it would seem to make sense that you would raise your child in the same home? I hope that he still manages to be there for your child in the future, and that his current children and spouse are able to somehow heal from this massive betrayal by a man they trusted to look out for their family's best interest. I couldn't imagine the despair I would feel if I was his wife, or carrying his child.