Yuck, what a dirtbag. Been there, OP...and to all of you saying that "well she deserved it because she shouldn't have given it up on the first date," let me just say that no one deserves to feel worthless and disposable, which is how many girls feel after being treated this way. It isn't rape, but it can feel just as violating when a man whom you thought loved your soul turns around and treats you like a used condom. It's a breach of trust, of intimacy, of your very self. FYL, OP. There are much better guys out there, trust me.

And the fuckboi of the year award goes to...

If it was just a hook-up and not a date or anything, you shouldn't be that surprised that he wasn't looking for a serious relationship.

to assume he manipulated her or that he led her on is baseless speculation. the FML says nothing about that. She clearly was infatuated, wanted something more, and didn't communicate it. He clearly didn't go in thinking it was a relationship. she didn't communicate it was that. f her life for her hurt feelings and him being a dick about the nudes. she deserves it for making assumptions and telling everyone they ****** without checking with him. last I checked a guy would be considered an asshole for blabbing he had sex with some girl without asking her first if it was cool to talk about it.

I hope you told him to **** off! What a scumbag

Oh wow, what a winner... Take it from someone who was there for WAY longer than she should have been - don't do it. Cut all ties. Never answer any more of his calls or texts. He is SO not worth your time. Stay strong, OP xx

you can't trust too many people these days.???

He's probably embarrassed

Pffffft "a fuckgirl"!! Hahaa oh goddamn I've never heard that before.

Yes, OP, while you certainly do deserve better, you first need to think & act better so far as to deserve said "better." Building up your self-esteem & confidence first thing now will then give you the ability to wait for & appraise a better class of Mr. Right's. :-)