Why is everyone assuming the cheater is a "he"? That might not be the case. Don't call things of jus yet. Talk to your partner about in a mature manner and see if you can work through it first before calling off the entire wedding. If your partner made this mistake once, don't let it happen again. Ever.

It's your life to choose some misery now or much more misery as the years drag on.

It looks like he'll be the one paying you for all the money you can't get back.

I feel for you.. I found out mine was cheating too.. and fortunately I had not booked anything yet. He's moving out Saturday.

So what if everything's paid for! The important thing is that you found out before you married this louse!!!! You'll lose a little money but, gain a huge education. If I were you, I'd go ahead & turn the reception into a "Yay, I'm single party", eat the food, drink the booze & have a good time with your friends & family! That's how you win in a situation like this! Never let 'me know they got you down! Sorry this happened!!!

Maybe, it is his wedding gift for you? The one you will never forget ;). Boy, marriage is so wrong!!! Get the heck out of it!

Wish I found out before my wedding like you did, good luck

When you say your vows, call them out on cheating and watch their jaw drop.

And?

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