By Anonymous - 30/10/2012 19:34 - United States

Today, I found my fiancé is cheating on me. Our wedding is in 26 days and everything is already paid for. FML
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TurtleSmile 14

Cut your losses. Better to lose the money for the wedding than to go through a divorce.

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PipingMouse 14

Keep your head on straight OP, he didn't deserve you anyway if that happened. Tell your family right away. Do you have any big brothers? I'm sure they would love to help.

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CharresBarkrey 15

It doesn't specify which gender the OP is. The cheater could be the bride-to-be.

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alstbv12 13

Well I believe fiancé is typically male and fiancée is female.

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btstig 11

I didn't know there was a discernible difference in the pronunciation. Thanks 83.

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CharresBarkrey 15

Interesting! Thanks for letting me know, 83. I've never heard that before.

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krissybabe88 7

These are French nouns and in their language, nouns are male or female. Fiance is the male; fiancee is the female. So they would say "le fiance" or "la fiancee".

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daringtoride 27

Granted, some people can change, but I still believe in the motto: once a cheater, always a cheater, OP :(

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TheMathMajor 26

If you admit that some people can change, why would you stick to that all inclusive motto?

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CrewBoy 10

^ you cheated on someone... You always take the cheaters side in FMLs.

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daringtoride 27

Because, while people can change, 99% of the time, they have not TRULY changed. Some just learn to hide it better or not get caught; personal experience with that one.

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lolfood 24

It sucks that you can't get a refund :(.

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perdix 29

Sometimes you gotta take it up the ass financially to save your dignity. Is your mental well-being really worth less than the deposit on a reception hall and a few cheap-ass kitchen appliances?

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007type 26

It makes me sad to wonder how long OP have been saving for the wedding.

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fantita495 19

26 days to find a new husband :) now your life's a movie

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JJJJJakkkkeee 6

I suggest a quick trip to Vegas will do the trick.

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drewcat21 0

Or pull the stunt joy did to earl in my name is earl lol

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perdix 29

On the other hand, you ought to go through with the wedding. Marriage changes men instantly. He'll change once he's wearing that ring :D

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PipingMouse 14

Exhibit A) if you get married to an asshole it doesn't necessarily mean that he will "change". It usually ends in divorce. Exhibit B) During the time you try to " change" him, you most likely could be happy and looking for another relationship? Dunno if you agree, but this is my opinion perdix.

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unknown_user5566 26

33- Perdix is almost always being sarcastic. I'm pretty sure this is one of those times.

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PipingMouse 14

Most likely. I'm just saying...my opinion.

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amandajlucas2015 2

A wedding is supposed to be the happiest time in a persons life.. The moment when u are standing across from the other person exchanging vows u are supposed to be thinking how much u love eachother. Not I hate this ************ he cheated on me y the hell am I marrying him are u stupid.. Do not marry him u will regret it in the end

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wBlitz 8

Having had my fair share of being cheated on, never take them back. They aren't worth the trouble or the heartbreak. Cut them loose and move on. So sorry that happened to you OP :( it's never easy, and I can't imagine having to deal with that less than a month from your wedding.

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kiwienne 21

Their loss, honestly. Cheating is just plain stupid, but cheating on a pretty girl... what the ****. Doesn't even make sense

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kiwienne 21

My stomach feels empty just thinking about this, it must hurt so much. Sometimes it's a once-in-a-lifetime experience for people that makes them realise it's the biggest mistake ever. But other times they're just cynical people who should leave others alone who actually understand what commitment is all about. You'll be able to get a relationship filled with trust, OP. He won't - at least I doubt it's something many can keep a secret. And most people wouldn't trust someone who has cheated, even if it's just once. I wish you the best, OP

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DarthVader77 9

When pipes break you call a plumber, when TVset is not working - TV repairman, when taxes are due you go to an accountant. Why? Because they are the best specialists in their fields. Yet in bloody marriage we set unrealustic expectations of both our significant other and ourselves: we sre supposed to be ******* perfect! Yeah, right! Then we get frustrated, bitter, upset. Seriously, marriage is wrong!!! Speaking from the experience!

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kiwienne 21

My boyfriend can tease me, he can prioritise a weekend with his friends instead, I'll allow him to be frustrated with me - even if it isn't my fault and all of those little things don't make him less perfect for me, that's who he is. But CHEATING, is a completely different matter. It's something he knows would kill me, I'd rather have he slapped because he lost his temper, but desire another woman so much he'd hurt me so deeply.. I could not trust him ever again. It's just a huge thing, you know?

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