By missca - 16/12/2014 04:35 - Australia - Salisbury

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Today, I found out my Nan passed away. My boyfriend came over to comfort me, things got intimate and we ended up having sex. After he came, he chuckled to himself and said, "That one's for you, Nan". FML
I agree, your life sucks 45 837
You deserved it 9 038

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Hey all I'm the OP, in hindsight I should have put that my Nan recently passed away, it was a couple of days earlier, and the website insists all FMLs are started with "today". Rest assured I didn't simply find out my Nan died and proceed to have sex!

Top comments

It's kind of ironic that he was being an insensitive prick when his prick became sensitive after sex.

@19 - Connect with those you hold dear to mourn the loss of those you've become disconnected with. Sex is the ultimate symbol of unity; I imagine those in mourning would find that comforting after a devastating loss.

Comments

Garnetshaddow 30

I do hope you slapped him... Either he made a joke in poor taste and deserved a little smack or he's an asshole and deserves a smack. We don't know enough to judge for sure. Sorry for your loss OP.

Yes a perfect solution! We all know domestic abuse solves everything.

linnie_wesker 20

He made a joke that she didn't find funny so she should hit him? Yeah, no. Everyone is being way too sensitive about this... personally I would've thought it was funny, but that's just me. Either way it should not be a huge, dramatic deal.

Noone 'deserves a smack'. Not even aggressive individuals like you, although I feel really sorry for your partner and children(if you don't have any than futurechildren)! You can't just get violent over everything. Please think before you talk next time!

Garnetshaddow 30

Sheesh people... At least try to see the internet sarcasm. I am not violent. I never hit my dogs. Stop freaking out about the future that may never be! Even If I'd meant it literally... I wasn't saying punch him black and blue. Just a light swat. Idiots.

He didn't come over to comfort you with his words, I can guarantee that.

I think he was just trying to add some humor to the situation

Haha if you get mad at this then it's going to be hard for you to understand guys

PokeyPorcupine 18

Always think positive! Sorry for the loss op.

ezrajab 22

That's terrible sorry OP I would seriously reevaluate your relationship if he made a comment like that. Sorry for your loss

As a man, I can firmly say that men are not the brightest. We can be smart, we can be sensitive, we can be funny...but not all at once, at least he tried to make you smile. Sorry OP.

XUDT72 24

He sounds hilarious, like a great guy to hang out with.

Why would you have sex at such a difficult time ??

Merylwen 24

Why not? Did she break some sort of "grieving rule"? I don't think so.