By Uknowwh - 04/11/2009 01:12 - United States

Today, I found out that my best friend and the guy I had a crush on for 2 years are getting married. The worst part is that they've been dating for 2 years in secret, and just came out about it now. I've been telling her for 2 years how much I like him, and she's encouraged me the whole time. FML
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dc_elite 0

that sux but u should of made the move earlier and ur friend is a fake bitch

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MarleyMe95 0

Wow...sounds like a bitch. Drop her as a friend, if she's seriously that much of a backstabber...just get rid of her.

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Wh0ababyy 0

yeah. not much of a friend.. drop her. make her feel bad on her wedding you dont deserve this crap

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skinnyfatkid736 0

YTDI for not asking the guy out in the first place! You shouldn't be friends with people like that and you should have the self-respect to not sit around for TWO YEARS without asking the guy out. I don't feel sorry for you at all. Yeah your friend's a bitch but she probably just did it because she knew you'd never have the guts to actually say anything.

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Flutist 3

I hope they invite you to the wedding.

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jemmalou86 0

Wow, this is one of the most horrible things I've read on here. I feel really sorry for you OP. Also, it must be really horrible not knowing what to do about it as this girl was your best friend. If it was me, it' depend how much I liked the person that stole my guy. If it was a good friend who I liked and trusted, then yeah I wouldn't know what to do. But if was just someone I knew but wasn't really friends with, the firstly, I'd do whatever I could to split them up, and secondly the bitch would be six feet under the ground once I was done with her. Especially if she knew how much I liked the guy. A similar thing happened to me about three years ago OP- I'd had a crush on this guy at college for over a year, and my friends knew that, and then a mutual friend of ours started dating him (I wasn't friends with the girl but she was friends with most of my friends). They knew how much I liked him, and she must have known from them, so I felt really betrayed. Thankfully they split up long ago and me and the guy are still friends, and he's even now admitted he did like me back and has been trying to date me recently, but I don't fancy him anymore. Hopefully you'll get over it too. If its like that, and you're not really good friends with the person, then you can feel free to let hell break loose. But this was your best friend, so its an entirely different (and worse) situation. Some friend she is! I hope you're not still firends with her. If that happened to me, and she knew I liked the guy, I'd never speak to the **** again! Out of all the people in the world he could have dated, he chose your best friend, and vice versa! It really pisses me off how that happens, really. If I were you, and if you feel nothing but hatred towards your ex- friend, as I would, then what I'd do is try and split them up, or seduce hm or something, but the problem is she'll have already told him you like him, so I doubt it'd work. I'd just eiher move on or hope they break up. Or even better, ruin their wedding- do something to her dress, disrupt the service, or if you get invited, and you've got the guts, write a horrible speech and read it out during dinner, then punch her square in the face! I would! I don't think they'll stay together- trust me, in this day and age no marriage ever lasts. I've seen couples who've been together years, and seemed really tight, split up or divorce. Oh and as for #26's comment- if you really like someone, then in your heart you do own them in a way, and no-one has the right to come along and take that person from you.

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Flutist 3

#102--while I really feel for Op, I know what it is like to want someone and not have them want you back, you don't OWN people. I like this guy right now. My friend also likes him. We talked about it, face to face, and decided whomever he chooses is who gets him. He has a say in his love life and a right to decide who he wants. I question your logic. You said people who like someone means you own them. The guy who is trying to date you now, does he own you? Because he likes you and it didn't work out? You say you don't like him and so won't date him. Relationships don't always work out. Does he have a right to destroy any relationship you have in the future? I am all for saying that the Op has a right to be pissed off and to confront both of them, because she has a right to know the whole story and her friends reasons. I agree with #104. The friend told her to go for it, Op chose not to. Op lost out because she was a coward. 102, there will always be girls who you think should know you "like totally love someone" but this is not high school. Love is like a jungle, unless you get out there and stake your claim: meaning, telling the guy you like him, asking him out, then you have no right to tell some girl or guy they cannot date someone just because you might be hurt. Op, don't ruin your friends wedding because you could not get the guts to take the window of opportunity your friend gave you. He chose her. She did not rape him and brain wash him. Sure she dated him when you liked him, but she didn't do anything wrong. He liked her and not you, he CHOSE her and not you. The guy has a chose, it takes two to tango. So drop it, talk to them, tell them how much it hurts, and try and work past this. If you cannot get through this then you need to bow out. Leave with dignity.

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mudafish 0

I would have slapped the bitch in the face when she told you she was marrying him. You should tell her how you feel! I think what she did was absolutely cruel. Ask her why she supported your love for him if she was dating him. Tell her off!

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Anwyl_Jones 3

I'm going to be mean here, but sweetheart, I have no sympathy for you. No, my sympathy lies with your friend. She had to sit there for two years listening to her best friend talk about how much she liked the guy she was dating. They must have kept their relationship secret for a reason. And she could have easily told you that he was out of your league. And, #102, so her friend, who was DATING this guy, doesn't have the right to take OP's CRUSH away from her?

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