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I suggest keeping an eye of him, or ask him to hand his phone to you. If he acts defensive, then he is cheating, if he does not then he is not cheating. But, still talk about it with him. Just be a bit easy about it instead of yelling it out at him. marriage should be about trust, not accusations But the former flame is still quite dangerous. you could just text her on his phone to stop the texts and to tell her if she dares to continue she will get her ass kicked and then some. -shrug- just talk to him about it op.
counciling. lots of it
watch out. my husband did the same thing. he has now moved in with his mom because he couldn't 'depend' on me. this is right after she left her husband.
I had the same thing happen and now I'm going through a divorce. Put your foot down!! stop it while you can.
If its been years since high school, maybe they're just catching up. If he won't let you read the texts, then that's a problem. If he does, then there's no problem
You people are stupid! Don't be so naive. There's no reason your husband should be texting a woman he was "obsessed" with. That's how affairs start and you'd be dumb to think its just innocent "catching up" .
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To be fair he probably sees you everyday, where he does see her alot
I would say trust him, but that's just too suspicious. I say get his texts from your phone company, if it's nothing than it's nothing & you can be happy knowing he loves you. If there are some hints then you can think about how you feel with a man who only commits part of his heart to you.