By Anonymous - 19/09/2010 14:12 - United States

Today, I found out that my husband keeps in contact with the woman he was infatuated with in high school. He texts her more than he texts me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 471
You deserved it 4 216

Same thing different taste

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Y_U_19029 0

To be fair he probably sees you everyday, where he does see her alot

underyourbreath 8

I would say trust him, but that's just too suspicious. I say get his texts from your phone company, if it's nothing than it's nothing & you can be happy knowing he loves you. If there are some hints then you can think about how you feel with a man who only commits part of his heart to you.

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I suggest keeping an eye of him, or ask him to hand his phone to you. If he acts defensive, then he is cheating, if he does not then he is not cheating. But, still talk about it with him. Just be a bit easy about it instead of yelling it out at him. marriage should be about trust, not accusations But the former flame is still quite dangerous. you could just text her on his phone to stop the texts and to tell her if she dares to continue she will get her ass kicked and then some. -shrug- just talk to him about it op.

Chocolate_Chunk 2

no matter what you think he did/does, you have no rith to invade his piracy. None. But it's funny that you follow that up with "marriage is about trust". You're probably the type of woman who will open his mails.

auto_da_fe 2

I think every woman has the right to invade her husband's piracy. Arrrh! ?-_* (pirate face)

Chocolate_Chunk 2

****, I must have been really tired when I wrote that. Arrrrrh.

iceygirl29 0

guys are always like that and they never seem to understand that whatever they say means the most (if you like them) and just sometimes go too far and hurt your feelings

watch out. my husband did the same thing. he has now moved in with his mom because he couldn't 'depend' on me. this is right after she left her husband.

I had the same thing happen and now I'm going through a divorce. Put your foot down!! stop it while you can.

xxhailstorm18759 7

If its been years since high school, maybe they're just catching up. If he won't let you read the texts, then that's a problem. If he does, then there's no problem

paintedg0dde55 7

You people are stupid! Don't be so naive. There's no reason your husband should be texting a woman he was "obsessed" with. That's how affairs start and you'd be dumb to think its just innocent "catching up" .