By Anonymous - 29/02/2016 22:56 - United States - San Bruno

Today, I hung out with some old friends for the first time since losing about 50 pounds, going from clinically obese to a healthy weight. I even bought a cute new dress for the occasion to show off my new body. No one noticed the change. FML
I agree, your life sucks 21 781
You deserved it 2 420

Same thing different taste

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Who cares? You did it for yourself, and as long as you feel happy, that's really all that matters.

Don't be so down. Maybe they forgot? I'm not helping, but congrats on the weight loss!!

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Geckosrock99 33

OP, there is no way they didn't notice. They might not have known how to comment on it. I know some people get offended if you comment on their weight loss, but because of the way they lost the weight, not always the comment. My guess is they didn't want to risk offending you. I know when by boyfriend dropped 50 pounds due to diet and exercise, everyone noticed and close friends and family complimented. Unfortunately, he got a pat down from a manager at a store we are regulars at (we didn't get a chance to stop by a thrift store for a whole new wardrobe and all he had to wear was baggy clothes.) and he assumed we were stealing. Sucks, but different people have different reactions to weight loss.

In a strange way, maybe its because they don't care about your weight, but enjoy being around you because of who you are?

Lord_Cthulhu 5

Trust me op, as someone who has also lost a lot of weight; I can safely say that they just didn't want to bring it up unless you did. Weight is a very personal topic, and some don't want to overstep their boundary.

arquerk 7

Maybe they think you're beautiful at any weight

Hey. Don't look for people to notice you. Keep working hard and make them notice you. Haters are your best motivators.

unless they were people you rarely see then they must have noticed. weird no one said anything.