I really hope someone at FML contacts this woman somehow and tells her she really needs to talk to the police. Admittly we don't know how underage this girl is but in the end she is still underage and pregnant to a man who is breaking the law by having sex with her. Now OP could herself get into shit for allowing a minor to sleep with this guy still. Seriously OP do yourself and your son a favour and contact the police immediately before you reach a point where you could be in almost as much trouble as your husband. Or at the very least kick them both out of your house. This is a situation that is not going to end well for anyone.

Geeze, I've called a few people a pushover in my lifetime... I need to retract that because not one of them are even close to this pushover of epic proportions! Sorry that you're going through this, OP... maybe give them another day and then ask them to leave... this isn't your problem to deal with and you have your child to care for.

you really are to good for the world.. dont let youreself be treated like this.. sit them down and explain they have to sort things out themselves outside of your home..

Dont let her stay for any more time than you feel uncomfortable. Give her a kickout deadline and when it comes around, leave all her luggage outside.

kudos to you for doing the human thing even if it kills you to do it. Don't let them liner though.

Who's paying rent again? You're going to have to have a spine and set some boundaries. Or else you will be a doormat, and they will use your food and electricity and not pay a dime. Put your foot down!

You need to report him if she's a minor & he got her pregnant!! Who knows who else he might hurt.

You're ridiculous for letting that happen. grow some pride.

Hi all! OP here. The good news is this was eight years ago, and I've really grown a spine since then. Here's a bit more background, since the 300 character limit is very, well, limiting. My (now ex) husband told me when our son was four months old that he couldn't handle being a husband and father, so he left. He also admitted to cheating on me since the beginning of our marriage. I was 19 and stupid, so I waited for him to "grow up" and be in his son's life. He didn't really show much of an interest until our son was a year old. Then he said that he had realized his mistakes and he wanted to be with me. I wasn't fully ready to forgive him, but I wanted to have a stable family unit for our son, so I did my best to work things out with my ex. His girlfriend was 16 (which while being under the age of consent in WI is also just a misdemeanor charge). I couldn't stand the girlfriend having to sleep on the streets, so I let her come inside. My ex then revealed his big plan of how he should be able to sleep with whatever girls he wants to have a gigantic family (a perverted stereotypical Mormon outlook - he wanted all of us to sleep in the same bed and be one big happy family). I couldn't do that, hence me sleeping on the couch. Sadly, I still wanted things to work out, so I let my ex and his girlfriend continue to stay. It wasn't until my landlord told me I could get evicted from having unauthorized guests that I told them they had to leave (I may have been stupid, but my son having a roof over his head was most important to me). My ex lost his temper at being told he had to leave (he went all drama queen claiming that he'd have to sleep outside - his family wasn't really happy with him either). The thing that made me realize what an idiot I was was when he told me if he couldn't have us (my son and I), he was going to kill us and himself. That was it. I filed for a restraining order (sadly it was denied for being a "petty teenage argument" according to the judge) and for divorce. I'm now happily remarried to an amazing guy who loves me and helped me see I am a worthy human being. My husband also adopted my son, so I never have to deal with my ex again (and my ex was happy for no more child support - not that he paid it).

My very first thought after reading this was that you're setting a terrible example for your son. You may be teaching him that it is okay for women to be treated this way. I'm assuming your husband is a grown adult, so you need to kick them both out. You're not doing anyone any favors by letting them stay, especially not yourself.