By anonymous - 18/07/2013 13:53 - United States - Woburn

Today, I overheard my ripped, handsome, genetically perfect brother telling my mom how "fat people" make him "nervous". I have only recently accepted my weight, after struggling for years. I now understand why my brother rarely talks to me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 53 425
You deserved it 6 909

Same thing different taste

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flashback.miss 28

don't let your brother get you down, OP. if you want to lose weight, do so for you.

I think you should approach him and ask him about his reasons for avoiding you. Don't assume it is because of your weight. You might be mistaken, and it could make you more insecure about your body.

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Sounds like he has more issues than you do...we all need to be ourselves

It sounds like OP has tried what everyone says he should do. He did mention he has struggled for years. What comes easy, or what you think is easy to do, is not the case. I am thin myself, but I have seen my mom struggle with weight. She has tried everything. Never being able to get her weight down has been depressing for her. She does not eat sweets, except at birthdays, then it is seriously like a bite. She does eat her fruits and vegetables more than meat. I honestly don't care what she looks like as long as she is healthy.

lastday27 10

He does realize that he's not going to stay like that forever. 15 years later he could be claiming that ripped, handsome people uncomforting.

I would not worry what other people think. just be OK with yourself when people make statments. like that it's just showing how stupid they are

Please, don't you ever, ever let someone else make you feel bad about your body. No-one's 'genetically perfect'. For example it sounds like he's a real twat. Whilst you're clearly a strong person who has successfully battled their self-esteem issues thus far. Don't let that shallow idiot get to you.

NorwegianViking 8

I'm sure your brother loves you no matter what. Family is family :)

You know what, don't worry about your brother. You've accepted your weight, if you're too much over weight then change it but if you're comfortable just live your life happily.

Your brother is a dick, OP. Fat people make him nervous? Well people like him make me mad. Not everyone can be perfectly skinny, and some struggle with their weight due to health issues they can't control. Granted a lot of people are just lazy and pig out on junk food, but a lot of people can't help their weight. Your brother has no right to judge people, fat or not. You just keep your chin up and stay happy. If you've accepted your weight, good for you! Don't let your stupid brother get to you.