By Anonymous - 11/02/2017 06:00 - United States - Richmond

Today, by helping my sweet, caring boyfriend get over his crippling insecurities and develop some confidence, I've turned him into a lying, cheating asshole I can't stand. FML
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There's a pretty simple solution to that problem. Dump the douchebag. If he was stupid enough to treat you like that after everything, then you deserve better.

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KrazyKlownNinja 12

Story of my life. You always think their different. You let them know that everything is okay. Them BAM they are the opposite of what you thought they were. Sorry op you don't deserve that.

I don't usually say that as i think it's always better to try and work things out but in this case it's pretty clear that leaving him is the best option.

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Honestly OP, don't try to change people. If he was ever going to get over his insecurities, it would've happened regardless. It's not wrong to feel alone and scared sometimes. Just be there for people, don't be them. YDI in my opinion.

It doesn't say ANYWHERE that OP is the one that brought up the idea of working in the BF's issues. It says that OP was HELPING him do so, meaning he's just as likely to have been the one to suggest the action.