By Sexless4Life - 05/08/2013 18:33 - United States - Cincinnati

Spicy
Today, I realized that it's been well over a month since my boyfriend has even tried to have sex with me. The last time was our first time, and because he couldn't keep it up, he's too humiliated to accept any of my advances. FML
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flashback.miss 28

Talk to him, and try to find ways to spice it up.

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kasmol 16

Help take the pressure to perform off of him. Ask him if you can do something different like oral, mutual masturbation, etc. Help him to regain his confidence. Sometimes it helps to have a rule of no orgasms for the first 30 minutes. Then tease him until he is at the point of no return. When it seems like he can't hold out any longer, ride him until he cums.

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hunteryager 18

Wow you seem to have been with a lot of guys with dick problems. Lol

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mete_orito 34

Or maybe you are the person with that problem.... over and over.... :-P

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mete_orito 34

Well. It also depends on how old is OP's boyfriend. It seems both are very young.

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notsofriendly 17

It happens - to both guys and girls! Stress and many other factors impact sex drive and ability to maintain erection. Give it some time and help him see it's not something to despair or worry about, and that you'll be there for him no matter what. I know firsthand that it can seem terrible, but it's probably just anxiety - and even if there's a medical issue, there are plenty of solutions. :)

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Mshrodes 13

I think it's a whole other kind of problem you have when the "girl" can't maintain an erection.

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TeddyBeaRx666x 3

Holy hell, thumbs up to this comment. Freakin crackin' up xD

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shadow2903 11

Aww that's so sad :( give lots of lovin to the poor guy and make him feel better!

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Tarkinoof 2

That sucks for you OP. It sucks for your bf even more though!

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1jordan1 11

At least he's not trying because he is grossed out or doesn't want to have sex with you. Let him know its normal and happens sometimes.

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cynical78 15

Stress and performance anxiety can kill an erection. As well as diet, sleep, medical problems etc..

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