By KalaKa - 20/12/2014 20:45 - United States

Today, I sent my girlfriend a long-overdue message telling her I feel like she doesn't really care about me any more, that it seems like she only ever calls me when she needs money, and that I'm even starting to suspect she may be cheating on me. 14 hours later, she replied: "TL;DR". FML
I agree, your life sucks 31 972
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Same thing different taste

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austincain117 16

I kinda hope you mean ex girlfriend... Nobody deserves to be treated like shit.

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Nope. Done. It's going no where good, real fast.

badluckalex 23

props to you for trying to make the relationship work, but luckily you found out she isn't worth it before it for more serious.

1st, I hope you moved on, but if you need to have a conversation like that texting isn't exactly the way to do it. Man up and talk face to face.

There could be many reasons for a talk like this over text, one being that he never sees her unless she wants something which would make it extremely challenging to talk in person. Another possible reason being that she could be every emotionally responsive making op feel unsafe having such a talk in person.. and many other reasons.

speaking from experience, those sorts of conversations are best spoken in person. Face to face. If she's the type to turn things around and make you out to be 'in the wrong' for voicing concern or having concern (some people play wicked mind games), then that's also a toxic relationship. Communication is so so so incredibly important. And if you're in a healthy relationship, communication shouldn't be problematic. Not to say there won't be awkward convos from time to time. But if you can't have a face to face convo with your partner over something serious, there's a problem.

You TEXTED that? Text is really not the best medium to have deep relationship related conversations. Communicate like an adult - talk!

If she can't even bother to read a text her significant other sent her, what makes you think she's willing to talk it out in person?

I think the point was that OP never saw her since she ignored him and therefore had to have that conversation over text.

SingleMom_of_2 5

Ok, I should have read the comments before I asked what that meant. I hope she is you're ex girlfriend now. You deserve someone who's will treat you like a prince. Who will care about you, be loyal to you and won't use you for just your money. I'm sorry KalaKa for your shitty girlfriend.

ChildrenOfFilth 12

To that you reply, "Summary: We're done. GTFO."