Love: Today, I stumbled across my ex's blog. Apparently, while dating...

By FMlovelife - 28/06/2012 15:28 - United States

Today, I stumbled across my ex's blog. Apparently, while dating me, he realized he was gay. Good to know the one guy I've dated, lost my virginity to, and fell in love with, was never truly attracted to me and was dating me just to be sure. FML

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By Anonyme - 13/11/2008 02:46 - France

Today, I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, who is going out with someone else now. At least I now know that he's gay. FML

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By Alisha-_- - 23/11/2018 03:00

Today, I found out that the love of my life had been pleasuring himself to pictures of my ex-boyfriends. Yes, he's bisexual. He says it's ok because I'm dating him now. Great. FML

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Mask off

By Anonymous - 09/04/2020 20:00 - India

Today, I found out that the guy I've been dating for a year is and always has been gay. I was apparently "an amazingly convenient beard" for his ultra-religious family. FML

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You deserved it 210

By smashleighfig - 08/03/2010 05:14 - France

Today, I found out my husband of 10 years has a online blog. Excited to read about myself, I began skimming, only to find out that every entry is him explaining how he let his "soulmate" walk away 9 years ago because of his "previous commitment" and how he regrets it every day. FML

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Catfished

By mylovelifeisanepicfail - This FML is from back in 2015 but it's good stuff - United Kingdom - London

Today, I discovered that the man I have been talking to on a dating site is actually my ex-boyfriend. He created a fake profile and made me fall for someone that doesn't exist. We got on better anonymously than we ever did in 3 years together. FML

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You deserved it 3 974

The real me

By Anonymous - 26/01/2021 19:01 - United Kingdom - London

Today, after three days of dating a boy I liked, he came out as gay on his Instagram. FML

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You deserved it 137

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By Anonymous - 16/09/2019 00:01

Today, my boyfriend dumped me for a guy. I was the only one who knew he was bisexual. Now everyone thinks I "turned him gay." FML

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Friends?

By idekwtfigo - 01/05/2022 06:00

Today, I found out that the girl my boyfriend says is "just a good old friend" is actually an "ex that got away." FML

I agree, your life sucks 865

You deserved it 95

Soul searching

By Anonymous - 05/06/2023 03:00

Today my ex-boyfriend came out as gay. My family were like, “It’s about time! Oh honey child, we knew he was a major queen the day you brought him home, that’s why we let you share a room on sleepovers. No way was he going to try anything.” It’s true, we dated for 5 months and I’m still a virgin. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 024

You deserved it 319

By Anonymous - 10/08/2012 22:06 - Thailand - Bangkok

Today, my girlfriend, who I've loved and dated for over a year, confessed that she's actually straight as an arrow. All this time, she's basically been using me as an accessory to enhance her "social status" and make her guy friends horny. FML

I agree, your life sucks 41 539

You deserved it 4 973

every1luvsboners 11

Thursday 28 June 2012 19:04

But a strap-on, grow a mustache and change your name to Harry. Then y'all will have a great time.

reallytho3 11

Thursday 28 June 2012 19:09

Don't be a girl named Harry, get DirectTV.

Comments

jeragonm 15

Saturday 30 June 2012 1:22

What's the site? I have got! To read this. Soooo funny!

Midwest 5

Sunday 1 July 2012 4:45

what a selfish prick

kittygirl21 5

Monday 2 July 2012 0:17

I agree 100% that's mean

daps29 11

Sunday 1 July 2012 13:47

I wish there was a more better way to show that that is so bad than "i agree your life sucks" -_-

captain__jj 5

Thursday 5 July 2012 0:06

OP there's a big difference between realizing he was gay while he was dating you, and dating you to make sure he was gay. It's true he might have thought he was gay and dated you to make sure, but unless he flat-out said that, you don't know. Maybe he truly wanted to date you and THEN realized he was gay; the reason you found out through a blog is probably because he didn't want to hurt you by telling you that he's gay.

franwins0827 7

Thursday 5 July 2012 19:45

Sounds to me like a good reason to reconnect and build a friendship with him. Instead of moping about your love life, maybe you could take some time and think about what kind of struggle he must have been going through, and at the very least not take your breakup personally and realize you have your own good qualities that someone [straight] will appreciate you for someday.

aliyanicolehinz 0

Tuesday 28 August 2012 0:39

It's probably cause you were drop dead ugly ...

shanemcunt 10

Wednesday 29 August 2012 16:43

Well she said apparently... Is it just me or does that sound like she was making an assumption... Sorry OP but I don't think he hurt you on purpose

WellShiiit 4

Monday 17 September 2012 6:50

This same exact thing happened to me! Except my ex decided to cheat on me, get a girl pregnant (how does that even happen?), and ended up moving in with my family because my mom felt sorry for him & because he had nowhere else to go. I am too afraid to even date again.