By Anonymous - 29/05/2013 05:28 - United States - Anchorage

Today, I told my boyfriend of ten months that I'm not ready for marriage. A few hours later he proposed at my grandma's 85th birthday party. She cried when I said no. FML
I agree, your life sucks 56 771
You deserved it 11 651

Same thing different taste

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At 10 months, I'm surprised he proposed. Of course it depends on what your age is. He's stupid for going through with the proposal even though you clearly said you aren't ready. And it's sad grandma is disappointed, but honestly, it's not her relationship. She should stay out of it.

Trying to pressure you into marring him? That's not cool.

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hellox3howlow 17

Okay, unless you want more to experience more manipulative and malignant behavior, you should dump him. Also tell your family exactly what happened.

Run away from your boyfriend OP! He sounds like a crazy daisy.

icepick23 12

Well perhaps he is smarter than everyone thinks. He clearly knew OP was not ready but asked in front of her family anyway. He has just written his own get out of jail free card. Years from now when the pressure is on to propose he just says remember last time. I don't want granny to get upset again. He sits back and doesn't have to commit. Dump him now before he rides this train as gas as it will go.

crazytwinsmom 25

That's a possibility. Either way, he's a dipstick.

TheyCallMeDamien 17

He was trying to manipulate you to get what he wanted. Dump him cause it will only get worse.

sugarbear0727 19

He probably thought you'd say yes cause it was your grandma's birthday. But honestly, he was being a dick. Im sorry if it ruined the rest of your grandma's birthday party. :/

He this thought you would break under pressure but it blew up in his face .

what a douchebag. why would he propose right after you tell him that?

ohchickabee 7

I'm still trying to figure out why he proposed when you said you weren't ready... The presence of a grandmother doesn't suddenly make one want to get married, at least in my experience.