Yeah cause that's how rational people act. GET. OUT. OF. THERE!

Shouldn't you try this in a public place next times? Yeah it's poor form to break up in public but if he's going to break the rules why shouldn't you?

Get your crap out of there when he's gone, then dump him by text. Since his done this four times in a row, it's probably not the best to do it in person. A restraining order might even have to occur if he keeps his attempts up. Good luck OP.

Wow!! you got a serious problem in your hands, next time do it public and ask a tall male friend to go with you when you do it.

That's an abusive relationship.... Sorry Op but you really gotta put your foot down and stand up for yourself maybe have a friend there as a witness incase something happens

So get your stuff out of there and find a place to stay and don't tell him your leaving

That's kinda scary. It's time to think of a way of breaking things off without being locked anywhere!

I'm so sorry you have to go through all this, OP. I know exactly how you feel. I have to agree with most everybody else though that it's time for you to stand up for yourself or he's going to get used to being able to make you stay by being that way. It isn't right. Know your rights and protect yourself always. Stay safe!

Since he is determined to violate your rights and hold you hostage to the relationship you are no longer obligated to inform him that you are ending it. Pack your things and leave while he's sleeping or out. Don't tell him where you're going and stay with a friend or family member. File charges against him, get a restraining order, block his number and email and ignore all his attempts to contact you. Ghost that mother ******. In a few weeks, have friends and family retrieve the things you couldn't take with you when you initially left. Don't accompany them if you can avoid it and have a police officer there if you can. Be aware that he may get violent. Good luck and stay safe.

This is an abusive relationship get the hell out of there