Miscellaneous: Today, I tried to contact my birth mother, who abandoned me when...

By unfortunategeek - 23/12/2010 16:13 - United Kingdom

Today, I tried to contact my birth mother, who abandoned me when I was three weeks old. After months of tracing, I finally plucked up the courage to call her. She told me to "f*ck off and die". FML

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By thedeadone - 15/07/2019 00:01

Today, I found the phone number of my biological mother after years of searching for her, and gave her a call. I introduced myself by name and said, "I'm your daughter." There was a pause at the other end, followed by, "The one I aborted or the one I gave away?" FML

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By frogface_fml - 20/05/2020 05:00

Today, I talked to my birth mother for the first time in over 26 years. Five minutes into our conversation, I remembered why I stayed away. FML

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You deserved it 240

By kelly - 21/03/2011 07:07 - Estonia

Today, I called my mom to tell her that I'm coming over for a visit. She answered: 'Why? What do you need? Food? Money? I'm not going to help you! You're a grown woman!' And she hung up. I just found out that I'm pregnant and she was the first person I wanted to share it with. FML

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Family values

By family sucks! - 06/10/2021 23:00 - United States - Hesperia

Today, I ran into my aunt I hadn’t seen since I was a child. My mom told me she took off and stopped speaking to everyone. After lunch, I asked her why she left. She said our whole family ostracized her for aborting her abusive husband’s baby and divorcing him instead of "making it work." FML

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By a tad whipped - 28/04/2013 20:44 - Australia

Today, I summoned the courage to call my abusive mother-in-law about her non-payment of the money I stupidly lent her last year. She replied, "Why don't you go deepthroat a cactus, then we'll talk about it, cunt." and then hung up on me. FML

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By Thebestman123 - 05/08/2011 02:45 - United States

Today, my mom was screaming at me and said, "I wish I'd never adopted you." I guess I'm adopted then. FML

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This Is Us

By Anonymous - 04/11/2021 16:59

Today, I located my birth dad and asked him why I was put into care. Turns out my mom died, and since he hadn’t wanted me in the first place, he just gave me away and hoped to never see me again. He didn’t even invite me in, he threw a beer at me and threatened to call the cops unless I left. FML

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You deserved it 220

Drama Llama

By Mike - 11/09/2019 04:01 - United States - Burlington

Today, I called my mother to say hi. She spent a whole hour and a half complaining about how I never call her, bawling and calling me "a waste of human flesh." I call her at least once a week. FML

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You deserved it 131

Open-minded

By plaid_is_cool - 05/05/2020 05:00

Today, my mom called me and asked me to fix her computer, three days after saying she never wanted to see me again for dating a boy. I got lectured to on how I'm ruining my life the whole time. FML

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Deadbeat

By Anonymous - 29/10/2021 02:00

Today, I tracked down my birth dad. He lives in a massive house, with a wife and two kids, 3 cars and a fucking sailboat on the drive. My mom and I grew up in poverty, but I was calm when I confronted him. He had his gardeners throw me into the street like I was inconvenient trash. FML

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DahkLohd 4

Thursday 23 December 2010 19:04

Well, consider yourself lucky that she didn't raise you.

Acousticpixie14 6

Thursday 23 December 2010 19:11

You said she abandoned you? If she abandoned you, not just gave you up, but ABANDONED you, then why did you even want to find her? I guess I can understand the morbid curiosity and wanting to meet your biological mother, but are you really surprised at her response if she ABANDONED you? That really really sucks for you, and I'm sorry, but you kinda walked right into that one.

Comments

zemo999 0

Thursday 23 December 2010 20:07

Now you know....

monnanon 13

Thursday 23 December 2010 20:11

Op i am sorry she rejected you again but hopefully you still have the two good people who raised you. If you are in need of answers to genetic things or heritage then mabye try contacting another family member like your mothers sibling, parents or something. You never know they might want to get in touch. Do you still know your dad? maybe he could give you answers.

Dark_Charizard 0

Thursday 23 December 2010 20:13

Everybody deserves a chance? Sorry, OP.

DoggyLoPaw 0

Thursday 23 December 2010 20:19

I was so moved by your entry, that after following the site for over a year, I was motivate to open an account so that I might comment on your situation. A response that callous suggests that she may be mentally ill. I am sorry that you were so hurt, but try to understand that it has NOTHING to do with you. Please accept my {{{E-hug}}} and my wishes that you always feel loved by those around you, who KNOW you and appreciate you. xox, U*u*U (Doggy)

SamSayzRAWRZ 0

Thursday 23 December 2010 20:23

OP, your mother ABANDONED you. Did you think she'd be happy to hear from you now? Besides, since she left when you were only three weeks old, why would you want to know such a woman anyway?

pitineo_fml 0

Thursday 23 December 2010 20:25

39 = you should die now !

Lisa89 3

Thursday 23 December 2010 20:34

FYL. Just be happy you have a family/friends that cares for you and thank **** your biological mother didn't ever raise you. But i swear i've heard this exact FML before... or one very similar.