It's your life. Enjoy it the way you see fit. I'm in my 30's I have a wife and kids but I'm still immature as well.

Grow up

Y'know... a lot of your friends will be divorced in ten years. Those kids I'm sure are a tremendous joy to their parents, but they are also a HUGE strain on their time, patience, and budget. It's your life. If you never feel like getting married, don't. If you don't want kids, don't have them. DON'T ever feel pressured into doing these things because everyone else is. LOL, sounds like anti-drug advice. You may feel old at 30, but you're NOT. Give it time, see who you are, and go with that.

For you, there should be a third choice-your life sucks AND it's your own damn fault. I hope you are at least living on your own and not glomming off of your parents.

You sound awesome. Sometimes maturity isn't in the cards till way later. I approve.

its my big 3 decade too. and though I have a couple of degrees and a decent job, I feel the same as you do op

Well, they do say the first forty years of childhood are always the hardest.

Technically, wouldn't 'premature age-jaculation' mean you gain maturity *before* it's typically expected?

Better start flipping dope... No age requirements for that. ^_^

More like young at fart! Tee-hee, fart. (I'm a 3rd-grader at heart.)