Maybe it's because your playing games like GTA

Did you get the coffee at the end of the date at least?

I've been there.

Just gotta find what suits you op. Some people do better in public places like bars or events heck I even had friends who met their SO from a D&D group. Then there are people who do better online. Doesn't have to be a dating site can be even a game like a mmorpg or a Role-playing game or site.

I've been there.

maybe OP has tried with a few people but it didn't work out? all these people assuming OP is some greasy nerd that just plays video games and doesnt put any effort.. alot of people play gta and still have lives hah

Put down the controller, pick up the Tinder app

Plenty of fish

The more you go out and socialize the easier it gets. Give it a try, you have nothing to lose :)

Play your cards right, and you can brutally murder her, steal her money, and avoid arrest. Good luck, Tiger. ;)