By Undefined - 01/01/2009 12:09 - France

Today, I was at a restaurant with my boyfriend. I look him straight in the eye and ask him: "What's the first thing you think about when you look at me?". His answer: "Can I finish my steak?" FML
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Same thing different taste

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If you feel the need to bait your man with odd, open-ended questions, you need to evaluate yourself- not him. I know where I'm coming from, as I used to do the exact same thing, putting out bait for one specific answer that would make me happy and of course, rarely receiving it. It was because I had issues myself, mostly self-esteem issues and self-loathing issues. You need to look at yourself and why you feel the need to do this. Men are simple, and are happy to remain simple, and you should let him eat his damn steak and enjoy time with his girl instead of putting him through a psychological evaluation.

Why would you ask such a question? If it's just the first thing that came into your head, maybe you should have thought about it harder. If you were doing it to test his love for you, you need to think hard about why you feel the need to do that. BTW, I'm a girl, so I hope you won't be offended when I say that there is pretty much no reason to ever ask that kind of thing.

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maybe he had something positive to say and wanted to finish his steak so it didnt get cold

littlegold 7

Lol, I would say the steak part...

mojo5678 5

YDI for putting him on the spot while he's eating

528Alice491 3

I'm a chick and even I think that's a stupid question to begin with. Maybe you should try to be realistic about guys and their lack of romanticism, in most cases. It's really nothing to be offended over, it's not even an Fml in my opinion. You were trying to get him to be touchy feely, but I guess what you can take to heart is his honest answer is sort of romance, for a guy.

I get him. Who needs words when you have steak?

Don't hit him with a sudden question while he partakes in a steak.

Trap.. if you didn't like his answer you guys would bicker and it would turn to a huge fight.. Resulting to you guys leaving the restaurant and him not being able to eat his steak..