By Anonymous - 24/10/2010 13:06 - United Kingdom

Today, I was selling personalised stockings at work. When handing a customer's order over to her, which had no name on, I joked, "Oooh this is a bit mysterious". She replied, "Actually, it's in memory of the baby I miscarried earlier this year." FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 058
You deserved it 10 006

Same thing different taste

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haha89 0

You didn't know. Although that would've hurt to talk about a lost baby.

That's a bit bizarre for a parent to do. Why leave the kid's name off if it's supposed to be in memory? What am I missing here?

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#9, Maybe they lost th baby before getting a chance to know the sex or pick a name... But OP I know there was no way not to feel like a douche but you didnt know so take that as a learning experience

that's not an fml. i doubt she went home all angry about it. feeling guilty means you are a good person. don't sweat it

jocelyng_fml 0

I'm sorry will somebody explain this to me, what's a stocking stand, and if it means what I think please explain the fml

christmas stockings. some malls have stands where you can pick designer stockings and have them personalized with all kinds of fancy letters and trim. i, personally, have never seen one, but my vivid imagination has allowed me to

jocelyng_fml 0

ok thanks it's just a little early for Christmas so I had no idea what kind of stocking op meant

ohsuzykuew 0

I believe the words Christmas stocking kiosk may have been a better explanation.

there should be a skill testing question people are required to successfully answer prior to being allowed to comment ...

Fortuitous 0

True. However, I'm sure the mother was still upset over the loss, so it still is an FML.

justanotherbird 19

No, that really isn't a normal situation. How often do people buy Christmas things for miscarriages? I'm not saying it's bad that the lady did, but it isn't exactly typical. There are various other reasons the stocking may not have had the name on it, I don't see a problem with what the OP said.

# justanotherbird, your comment is invalid. Not everyone has the same "culture" or ways of "memorial". The mother just wanted to do a little something for her dead baby. I don't see anything wrong with that. So even if it's common or not, she can do whatever she wants to do. This could have had been the baby's first Christmas, if he/she was still alive.

That's not what 59 was saying, they were only saying that it wasn't OPs fault.

I never said that OP shoul have stayed quiet... I was just saying everyone has a different way of honoring someone or something. I apologize if I said something wrong.

MissD0llFace 5

no wayyy!! then there wouldn't be any morons to laugh at

59 I was referring to the comments by other people in this thread, not the OP. FHL As a consumer, I enjoy a little humourous banter with salesclerks. It sounds like that's exactly what she was trying to initiate. She has nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, the guilt she feels for the situation reflects her good nature. It's unfortunate, but sometimes these situations happen.

Elixa 0

Your a horrible horrible person! it's called being professional, and always expecting the unexpected. I hope you were fired!

ohsuzykuew 0
Graawr 7

Well that sucks, but you didn't know about it. But people will still think that ydi. :

how do you put up a pic for fml when your on your phone?

how do you put up a pic for fml when your on your phone?