Both FYL and YDI. FYL for marrying such a scumbag, unless you treated it some way that made him turn like that, my ex was treating me so badly I came to a point where I just stayed with her for sex, didn't give a shit about the rest, came to realize it was better to end it like that then continue a shitty relationship like that. YDI for asking for good treatment though, girls tend to do that a lot, saying things like "I want to hear something cute" or "He treats her like a princess, I want you to do the same thing". If we haven't done it yet, it's probably because we haven't thought about what to do yet, that we're too shy to do it, or you just flat out don't deserve it. If we get an idea, build up the courrage to do it, and you deserve that treatment, you'll get it, untill then. By all means, don't ask for it, even if it's not dirrectly, we know it's what you're asking for.

I'm unlike most guys in that I prefer natural breasts of any size over fake ones. I'm exactly like most guys in that I don't want to hear some bitch comparing me to someone else's boyfriend.

I love the mistaken belief that women should just sit there and contribute nothing to a relationship while the man does all these "cute" things like buying her flowers every so often or taking her out to do things she likes... Are you a housewife, raising the children and generally working your ass off? No? Then you aren't doing anything to deserve treatment like that.

Who honestly married thinking that their life will be like a disney movie? I married my husband because I loved him and he loved me, end story. However my husband isn't much of a romantic guy at all and I love romantic stuff. Sometimes I have to plan everything (dinner, movie etc) just to get the romance out of him. But there are times that he does surprise me with flowers (hell, a week ago he gave me roses for the heck of it) or other little treats. So it just depends on the person really. Also, my husband love video games and send hours just playing. I don't care, I mean I knew he loved it and I wasn't going to change it, instead I joined him.

My boyfriend treats me right and I don't have big boobs. If that's what he wants you should leave, because everyone has a preference, and it's not always big breasts. All body types are preferred by one person or another. Just because you don't look like your friend at work doesn't mean that you aren't beautiful and that you can't be treated right. It shouldn't be your looks that determine how you're treated in the first place. If that's his terminology, then that's just another reason to find another man. Maybe the next one will suit YOUR preferences. Seems like neither of you are happy with how the relationship is working to me personally, but this is just my opinion.

Fyl but don't compare him to other men. You obviously saw something in him that made you want to marry him. Besides comparing him to other guys to his face is kind of insulting. Also he doesn't need to impress you anymore :P just keep you. jk jk

I know this is going to sound stupid but, is that your real last name or is it just a pun?

That's beyond disrespectful of him. If he married you it's because he loves every part of you. He shouldn't even joke about wanting you to change. He knew what he was getting into.

Leave him.

I side with the husband, he may be obligating to pay for it.