Fight!

By Anonymous - 03/10/2019 06:00

Today, I overheard my husband of 3 years talking to our boss, an attractive blonde. She was telling him that she couldn't believe he was with me. She thinks I'm fat and ugly and that he's hot. He said, "She's not that bad…" We work in the same store and she follows him around like a puppy. FML
I agree, your life sucks 2 477
You deserved it 211

Same thing different taste

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"She's not that bad" is hardly a compliment to pay to one's wife. Imagine a dozen roses and a card signed "To my not that bad wife".

It does sound like he stood up for you. I mean, honestly he could have just agreed

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Time to put Fifi on her leash. A short one.

It does sound like he stood up for you. I mean, honestly he could have just agreed

"She's not that bad" is hardly a compliment to pay to one's wife. Imagine a dozen roses and a card signed "To my not that bad wife".

still better than writing "To my wife, who I can do better". its context and how you look at it, if one is a negative one that's going make me feel bad about myself and the other is one that is slightly better but gives a sliver of positivity, then I will go for the latter. Plus on top of all, who cares what others think, I have gotten plenty of remarks on how people feel about me, I however only care about mine not the world's

But remember, this is his boss. He's trying to not piss her off and make the situation worse than it is. If he knew that OP was listening in, he probably would have been more vociferous in his defense. What he needs to do is go over the boss's head and report her harassment but that's often a tricky thing to do and I can't really blame him for not wanting to deal with the possible consequences.

leximichelle 13

What he really should have done is told his boss (politely) to mind her place and not insult someone he (hopefully) loves and cares about. They were both pretty wrong in that situation.

a real husband would have defended his wife if he truly loved her time to get out of that marriage and move on

Sounds like the Boss is engaging in repeated sexual harassment.... OP, start writing down each time that she does anything that *isn't* job-related & too personal in nature regarding Hubby. Perhaps then you could report her behavior in writing to her supervisor anonymously. Good luck, OP! :-)

I think you need to sit down and talk to your husband about this.

bullsonyourface 20

yeah no your husband is a dick and the ugly one in this scenario.

I'm glad he's not my husband. "she's not that bad"? that's him sticking up for you?

I understand not wanting to step on his boss’s toes...but he definitely should have said something more than that in response, and he needs to make it perfectly clear that he’s happily married and she needs to back off (politely). I’m crazy though and I’d confront the B.

And this is the man you want to spend your life with?