better question who ask for permission

I hear girls talk about there's with each other all the time

What person shows a stranger their "wang"?

It's a gym. I've never seen one with private showers, they're still built with really old sensibilities in mind. No one used to care about naked people of the same gender.

I've never been to a gym that didn't have private showers. Whether in high school, college, or a gym like Planet Fitness or 24 Hour, there were always private gyms and private toilets. Maybe OP was walking around naked.

I know 24 Hour has individual shower stalls but other clubs and schools have open shower rooms. They’re quite awkward at first, but you eventually get over it.

I have been to one with a private shower

Near as I can tell, most of them. I've never been around a group of men that didn't crack jokes about the size of their dicks and such. This seems to be doubly true in situations where the men actually know, for whatever reason, how big or small the others are.

either a jealous guy or a jerk who thinks they're all hot stuff, and they think that their wanker is big, but sadly, their ego is also big.... in fact, too big

We certainly do resent your three legged kind.

Your screen name betrays you

Have you ever seen those giant novelty pencils they sell at amusement parks and souvenir stores, heh-heh-heh?

But it could be “special” as in “Special Olympics.”

anonymous people on the internet is different than looking someone in the face as they laugh and make fun of you.

That's what those guys said!