By TinderStartsFires - 04/05/2017 16:49
ThePhantomFuta tells us more.
Hiya Guys n' Gals, OP here! First up, we'd already met before, gone on a couple of dates etc, but this was never exactly a romantic thing. Second, I said "Hell no!" (seriously!), yelled at them both for a bit, then left. Third, while many people may be into sleeping with married people, threesomes, etc, I'm not, because it gets too complicated (the whole point of this was to AVOID complications). So yeah, little rant over.
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I was thinking the same thing actually.
Did she let you in the back door?
Hiya Guys n' Gals, OP here! First up, we'd already met before, gone on a couple of dates etc, but this was never exactly a romantic thing. Second, I said "Hell no!" (seriously!), yelled at them both for a bit, then left. Third, while many people may be into sleeping with married people, threesomes, etc, I'm not, because it gets too complicated (the whole point of this was to AVOID complications). So yeah, little rant over.
So what's the problem? If she's OK with it, it's not cheating; if you're OK with it too, enjoy the **** out of it. If you're not OK with it, that's on you, not on them.
You set it up beforehand. You don't apron it on someone.
You set it up beforehand. You don't apron it on someone.
Did she eat popcorn and applaud?
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At the risk of sounding like my grandmother: you always, always meet in a public space and go to their place together. Entering a stranger's house puts you in a vulnerable position and meeting your date's wife is definitely not the worst that could have happened.
Well at least she is fine with it. I say go for it. It isn't cheating if she knows and is OK with it.