By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States

Today, I went to the hospital in premature labor. Alone, I texted my best friend/crush and asked him to come and sit with me for an hour while I waited on my mom to arrive. Eating cornflakes and watching TV, he replied "I can't". Apparently TV is more important than a best friend in labor. FML
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Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.

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gorjjays6 0

he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml

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ilikefish 0

Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.

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CodeMonkey123 0

What did you expect...? You say that you had a crush on him yet you still slept with some one else maybe he had a crush on you? Maybe this is his FML "I have had cruh on my best friend for years and i found out she was pregnat i was so upset because i thought she felt the same and now she wants me to see her give birth."

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mmnewcomb 0

you shouldn't have ****** someone else then

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soundmind311 0

unless you were raped or are a recently divorced mom, ydi. you shouldnt be sleeping around and even if u are u should at least use a condom u dipshit hoe.

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liveitlearnit 0

I won't go and say you should have gotten an abortion, like others... because that is your choice. I also won't call you a *****, because I have no idea under what circumstances you became pregnant. However, you can not expect a guy who might be catching on to your little crush, to want to hold your hand in labor. Most men will be horrified by the thought. To him, that could mean taking a next step that he's not ready for, especially with a woman with baggage. I hope your birth went easy, and that the baby was well enough to leave the hospital (or that NICU kept him/her safe!)

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CodeMonkey123 0

#39... guh that child will not always love it's mother because if she rejects him enough and doesn't give him a good life he will grow to hate her because he/she has been rejected there whole life..by there mother.. doesn't it feel bad when your parents care more about there crushes, boyfriend or father more than you... A mothers love for her child should be more than her love for anyone else..

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metwoo 0

YOU PEOPLE! I am SHOCKED and DISGUSTED at your treatment of this woman! It doesn't matter how she conceived, that's totally irrelevant to the fact that her best friend is a complete dick who doesn't deserve her friendship. How she conceived her child is her business alone and there's NOTHING wrong with being a single mother (if we're going to make the grand assumption she is). NOTHING. I mean, look--the current US president was raised by a single mother. Regardless of his politics, you have to agree that he turned out a success. Two parents does not a perfect child make. It's really easy to curse out and degrade a pregnant woman when hiding out behind your monitor, isn't it? You ******* cowards. OP, don't listen to this asshollery. People love to misplace anger all over the internet and I'm sorry you're the target of it. They're pathetic. You're a mom. You rock! :)

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Hullaballoo 0

How old are you? "Crush?" There's so much that's wrong with this FML

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katieface 0

maybe this is Octo-mom's fml :O

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fretforyerlatte 0

159, that's kind of exactly what i mean. even if a parent is awful, all the child really wants is their love and approval, throughout the rest of their life. as a parent you really have the pontential to make or break your kid's whole life. i don't even understand how a mother can't love their child more than anything, but apparently it does happen and it's a real shame.

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