By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States
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Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.
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#201 is right... if you're not ready to be having kids yet, you shouldn't be having sex. I do feel bad for the poster that her best friend couldn't be there for her... but it doesn't sound like she thought through the sex decision first, and for the fact that she sounds a little immature to be having a child, I don't feel bad for her in the least. I hope she can bounce back and be a wonderful mother, but that doesn't change the way she's becoming one.
Well where is the dad of your child?
#201, yeah. just ask bristol palin how that worked out for her
Of course TV is more important. I still don't understand why people would want to watch someone give birth. It's not like it's a ******* miracle. You're an attention *****.
I agree with #101. Yes, it sounds like the OP is too young to be having a child, but it was nice of her to keep the baby, and any woman deserves to have some moral support while she's in labor. What's with all the YDIs?
Shut up about the father already, he could be dead or something. Or just uninterested. And since when does getting pregnant make you a *****? It only takes one time. OP sounds far, far too young to be having a child, but she still doesn't deserve to be alone, scared and in pain. Shame on her friend.
8 and 1 you are retarded... 4 is completely right... Who cares bout the father, obviously she would call him but hes not interested etc. if the boyfriend knew she was interested in him it would put so much responsibility on him...
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he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml
Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.