By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States

Today, I went to the hospital in premature labor. Alone, I texted my best friend/crush and asked him to come and sit with me for an hour while I waited on my mom to arrive. Eating cornflakes and watching TV, he replied "I can't". Apparently TV is more important than a best friend in labor. FML
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way2gosam tells us more.

Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.

Top comments

he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml

Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.

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MissNat_fml 0

who the hell said this person is a teen anyway? whats wrong with wanting your mom at the birth? my friends /relatives had their moms at their children's births and they're in there 20's and 30's! and who said she had not called the father, even if they may not be togetehr? what if she also wanted her best friend there?

She said she was a teen in the follow up

You want him to be there substituting your kids father during his birth. If you were in his position you wouldn't want to be there, you expect him to act like a father to your child.

first, congrats and if he's nos your crushing on him it may be for his I don't like you back but of he was really a good friend he would be there as fast as he could get there

Chocolate_Chunk 2

it was on the news this mroing a mother in ar who had kill her three kids. they are taking the three babby back to new york too lady to rest my pary are with the father who lost his chrilden; i am truley sorry for your lots

rds029 0

F my life the OP is from Louisiana too.... darn teens bein stupid when they do the dirty...

wait, ur pregnant? but have a crush? either he's the father or ur like 16 and way to young to be having a kid

He's not the father and she said that she is a teen

did you have fun pushing a watermealon sized human out of your ****** as a teenager?

sounds like a teen pregnancy to me so I'll go with a big ole YDI