By way2gosam - 26/05/2009 04:52 - United States

Today, I went to the hospital in premature labor. Alone, I texted my best friend/crush and asked him to come and sit with me for an hour while I waited on my mom to arrive. Eating cornflakes and watching TV, he replied "I can't". Apparently TV is more important than a best friend in labor. FML
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Okay, I'm finally writing back to all 401 of your comments. Yes, I am a pregnant teenager- although, I can not see how that has any revelance to my post, pregnancy in teenagers happens quite often and I do not appreciate the judgemental/negative comments being thrown at me. It's pure slander. Yes, the father and I did have a fallout and I will be raising the baby on my own, with the help and support of my family and friends- not to mention he lives in the northern part of the state that I live in, which happens to be 4-5 hours away, even if he wanted to be here for the arrival of our child(which we are expecting to be a girl), he could not make it here on time. Therefore, my mother is my "go'to man", for lack of better words. I also notice you all are saying that he wouldn't want to hold my hand or watch the baby being born, I never said he would be in the delievery room- I simply asked him to keep my company during the scary hours of contractions that were yet to come, until my mother could arrive and take over. Yes, we had previously discussed it, and he had said that if need-be, he would be there. Unfortunately for me, he was speaking pure lies. As for the premature labor I did go into, they did stop it, and I am now on bed rest while taking a medicine called "terbutaline" every 4 hours in order to hold her until full term. (Which is also why I could write my FML, I didn't come home taking care of a baby, I came home on bed rest so I could have my baby at the correct time. I had nothing else to do but write my FML.) I do understand how confusing and misleading my post was, but keep in mind you only get a certain amount of letters to work with when writing your original FML, and by reading this I'm sure you've noticed that I could not elaborate thouroughly with 300 letters as a maximum. I do appreciate your opinions, even though I do not agree with all the statements that were made. Just wanted to explain since there were so many confused people.

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gorjjays6 0

he probably knows you are into him so is avoiding being to close to you incase he gets the position of father figure to your child and is therefore stuck with you and the kid forever, he saved himself from having a fml

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ilikefish 0

Is he the father? If he is, he should be more than a "crush". Sounds like a bad choice to me either way.

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andbreathe 0

@#135... chill woman. shiiiit. someone has a little pms at the mo. so where's the father? and your best friend/crush??? really? not married and you got a baby about to pop out.. good job.

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xxhellokittyxxx 0

waiiit.. so... u like ur best friend but ur having a baby with another dude??? no wonder he's acting like an ass :S.. maybe he likes you back and hes jealous

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Hoax_fml 0

#362 & 369 Leeleo17 I will absolutely judge her and everyone like her. Her actions either directly affect me or indirectly affect me in some way, i.e. my tax dollars. I'm going to judge the **** out of her. 99% of the time single mother = waste of funds.

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Hoax_fml 0

To clarify, the other 1% are independently wealthy. If you can't support yourself, and you make choices to exacerbate your situation, you deserve no sympathy. And if she was raped - ever hear of abortion? And if she doesn't believe in it, then she needs to wise up quick. A child thats starving, for either love or food, would have been better off aborted.

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Kitty34_fml 0

I hate to be "that guy", but I think if you're referring to someone as "my crush", then you are probably too young to be having babies.

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Leeleo17 0

#373, # 378 well if you KNEW she is one of those people i wouldn't care it all if you judge her or not. But the thing is that you DON'T know anything about her at all!!!! And that she's going to be a single mother doesn't mean she can't afford having a child or that she's going to be a bad mother! Dude, we are talking about a baby! A baby is a human being and it has a right to live. Yes, in some cases the baby might have been better off if it had been aborted, but you do not have the right to say that her baby would have been better off aborted - You don't even know the woman. And I am sure she loves her baby no matter what, otherwise she would have thought about abortion. Don't blame her for wanting to be a mother to her own child. You don't even know how wealthy or not she is, how much she loves her baby and what happened to the father.

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NotNegativeNews 0

#295, Cantabguy: It came from other people saying that the OP is instantly a ****, I didn't think you thought my friend was one. I can see my friend, a totally non slutty girl in a committed relationship, with very bad luck with contraceptives, having an accident and it not working out with her boyfriend. (it's committed, she loves him, but I really don't like him (he's not horrible or anything, it's a personality clash thing) and she's often upset about him.) In which case I'd be thrilled if she found someone else even if she was about to give birth. Therefore, the OP is not necessarily a ****. Also from conversation she was saying that spermicidal condoms do 'nothing' and if you use just a spermicide apparently you often get infections. Therefore I took it that she's not using that method either, just the condoms, at the moment.

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NotNegativeNews 0

*shakes head* I sincerely hope that none of you are friends of single mothers, and that they never find these posts. Or that you're all trolling. The anonymity of the internet really turns people into jerks.

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