By Anonymous - 23/05/2019 02:00

Today, I yet again had to explain to my boyfriend how sleeping with another person is cheating. It's been three days, and almost as many fights. He still doesn't get it. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 928
You deserved it 838

Same thing different taste

Top comments

"Yet again"? Why are you still with him? At this point, this is a YDI.

hello830 6

He knows what he’s doing.

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time to see how he feels about you banging someone he cheated 3 times My great idea -pick 3 guys -invite them over for an orgy -invite boyfriend over -let him walk in on them running a train on you and see how he feels about it (plus with 3 dudes hes less likely to try to kill them or you)

mr_dinzaster 16

That’s pretty intense but I like I think she should do it too lol

There is no 'rule' about what cheating is and is not. Maybe you just disagree with him - and maybe you should figure out what you can and cannot live with.

Sonotsuave 35

It explicitly states sleeping with another person. Ya that’s cheating in most peoples books

'Most people' may win elections. But 'most people' don't have a say in my relationship. Nor should they have in OP's. OP get to decide what she finds acceptable. Not 'most people'. If OP should choose to stay in the relationship - they are two who has to find common ground.

Erbtosis 10

Are you talking about literally sleeping or actually having sex? I feel like it is literally sleeping or he's extremely stupid or doesn't care.

I had exactly the same feeling. Because if you're talking about sleeping as closing the eyes and going to dreamland, I think opinions would differ a lot if that's cheating or not... in the other meaning: maybe he's polyamorous. But than you must be on the same level or leave each other.

childlessmother 16

Yet you stayed instead of breaking up with him

mr_dinzaster 16

and you're still with him because....?

maybe hes acting dumb to get away with what he did

LOL ' he doesn't get it'...yes, he does. You're the one who doesn't get it. He gets to sleep with other people and all he has to do is act innocent and you fall for it

SpaceshipOnAcid 9

Honestly at this point you really can't be surprised when (not if) he does it again. He's completely aware that it's cheating, he just doesn't care, and I promise from experience if you stay it will never get better.

Sounds like it’s time to make him your EX-boyfriend.

so why is he not an "ex" the first time he cheated?!?