PLENTY of people get that drunk. As for you, OP, I hope you can sort things out for yourself. As a few true comments have said, "drunk minds speak sober hearts." I definitely wouldn't want to be married to a man who constantly misses his ex.

Yeah you just dump someone that you're ready to marry soon because he or she got too drunk and start all over like nothing happened. You obviously haven't been in the real world #1.

Out of everything written in the FML, it's his drunkness you took issue with?

They say a drunk man tells no lies

Yep sorry to say op but you should really reconsider this engagement. It's pretty obvious he still has some feelings for this ex. You should never ever marry someone if there's even a single question that their heart is not fully into it.

never EVER?

sorry OP, hes not ready for marriage, he misses his ex after all that time, and really he's 21! that's too young. I was married at 23, we were highschool sweethearts (still married at 32) but damn was it so very hard and their is always the fear of would he have still chosen me after he grew up (and it takes til like 30 for most, not all, but most men to grow up) I might not advise you to call it off, that's up to you but, I would strongly advise waiting a few more years (if its meant to be, that time won't change your love) 25 is a good age, not too old but not too young.

when alcohol is flowing in, truth is often what comes out. looks like there are some issues you guys need to resolve OP. don't dump him without trying to work things out first.

Alcohol: liquid courage.

I've never understood that. I mean it doesn't really seem that alcohol is some magical truth serum. Yes, it can low inhibitions, which can lead to some things being said that are true, but would not say sober for reasons. However, people can still lie and be manipulative with alcohol in their veins. It may not be the case in this FML, but it's something to remember in real life.

* lower *normally say

#3 That is not true.

Alcohol: liquid courage.

Déjà vu.

It's a glitch in the matrix!! Everyone run! Op is an agent...

If having feelings for an ex was a reason to not get married then pretty much no one would get married. There's a thing called "talking about it" that they'll have to learn how to do.

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The misspell made the comment so much better haha