If what he said is true, what the hell are you thinking having another child?

Smart kid. Now those limited funds are going to have to stretch even further until you're able to get a job. And that can't happen until you've had your baby.

I mean to be fair, it's not jealousy if he's pointed out anything that's accurate. If it's inaccurate you should assure him of that and assure them both that having a new sibling doesn't mean they mean any less or not enough. Sounds like he's concerned about finances and to a point that a fourteen year old might be ahead of his peers on. Trust me if he's already considering financial burdens he's probably scrutinizing himself harshly about them as well and that can mess you up at that age. Especially if you wind up with a surprise genetic disease that only amplifies your anxiety about that stuff.

Is what he said true? If it is, why the hell are you having a baby? I feel bad for your kid. No kid should have to worry about bills.

I ready thought her 14 son had a daughter

If what he’s saying is true, you’re in no position to be bringing another child into the world. If you can’t pay your bills you can’t pay for another kid.

Wow sounds like the teenager should be running the household but he is 14 time for a job to help out and there are these things called condoms and birth control.

I don’t mean to sound cruel, but I hope this child was unplanned. If you were actually trying to have a child with the state of affairs you and your boyfriend are in, that is incredibly irresponsible of you. You should have been trying to find a stable job and reassure your step(ish) daughter and son that the financial burdens were not their problems, and that you and your boyfriend would do everything in your power to create a stable environment so that they could grow up. Even if things were tight from time to time, there would always be a roof over their heads, food on the table, clothes on their backs and love. Instead you seemed to have completely dropped the ball. If what your son said is true, you may not have made the effort to look for work, and now that your pregnant you’re definitely not going to find an employer that’s willing to hire a mom-to-be just so she can go on maternity leave and become a liability. As for your boyfriend being disabled, there isn’t much he can do there, but you two were selfish and let your family down. You are not a new couple who can do whatever you want, you both already have responsibilities to your children, they should have came first before your own desires and wants.

If he speaks correctly, why is the 14 year old the one thinking responsibly??