Love: Today, my best friend since first grade, who I've been in love...

By BG1059 - 05/06/2016 02:19 - United States - Irving

Today, my best friend since first grade, who I've been in love with for years and finally hooked up with last week, asked me for advice. He wanted to know if he should start a long distance relationship with a girl he hooked up with last night. FML

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You deserved it 2 092

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By Anonymous - 25/11/2010 13:41 - United States

Today, my best friend, with whom I have been in love for years, kissed me, hugged me, held my hand, hooked up with me and told me that he loved me more than anything and wanted to be with me... until he sobered up and his girlfriend got back to town. FML

I agree, your life sucks 39 696

You deserved it 8 228

By Anonymous - 03/12/2010 21:18 - Argentina

Today, a guy I've liked for a while asked if he could talk to me during break. He'd never done that before, so I was excited and said yes. As soon as we both sat down, he asked if I'd help him get a date with my best friend. FML

I agree, your life sucks 33 597

You deserved it 3 297

Remember bars?

By Baby_girl - 06/06/2009 02:14 - United States

Today, my best friend whom I have been in love with for years, called me, proposed, and confessed his love for me. He was at a noisy bar so I asked him to call me back later and we'd discuss it. He called back later, hungover, with no recollection of our conversation whatsoever. FML

I agree, your life sucks 57 340

You deserved it 5 301

That one hot friend

By Stillicide - 18/03/2022 17:00 - United Kingdom - Swindon

Today, I found out the guy I’m in love with has been side-messaging one of my closest friends about hooking up for sex. This isn’t the first guy this has happened with. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 241

You deserved it 200

By Anonymous - 15/09/2009 10:53 - United States

Today, my best friend, the man who I've been in love with for nine years, finally told me he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Unfortunately, it was while he was using me to practice proposing to his girlfriend. FML

I agree, your life sucks 55 929

You deserved it 8 792

By hopeless - 07/10/2016 20:28 - United States - Annandale On Hudson

Today, I confessed my feelings to the only man I've ever loved. He asked me for dating advice. FML

I agree, your life sucks 10 369

You deserved it 814

By okaythen - 14/08/2016 19:21 - United States - Euless

Today, I asked out this girl at work who I've had a crush on for a while. She looked oddly familiar, aside from the fact that we worked together. It was almost like we'd met outside of work. Two hours and one Snapchat story later, I realized I'd asked out my best friend's girlfriend. FML

I agree, your life sucks 13 426

You deserved it 5 019

By KeepOnTruckin' - 18/05/2019 17:50

Today, I had to help my best friend plan his upcoming date with the girl he doesn't know I'm secretly in love with. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 915

You deserved it 577

By … - 28/06/2012 14:20 - United States

Today, after three months of them dating, I finally met the guy my best friend claims she's in love with. To my horror, she's dating the douchebag that I had a one-night stand with a week ago. FML

I agree, your life sucks 40 450

You deserved it 6 971

Non-starter pack

By Anonymous - 05/08/2024 17:00 - United States - Huxley

Today, I'm in love with my best friend. We are intimate but live 24 hours away from one another. We had been discussing him moving closer to me, which was a recent turn of events and I was elated. We could finally be together… until some unexpected tragic news uncovered a kid he wasn't aware of. Now he's a single dad and staying put. FML

I agree, your life sucks 465

You deserved it 124

almost_there44 26

Sunday 5 June 2016 16:50

I don't know why people say they're in love with someone they haven't been with. Infatuation or lust maybe? Anyways OP, hooking up with him probably wasn't the best idea if you wanted a long term relationship. Maybe talking to him about how you feel would have been better. Since you're his friend, support him, he trusts you.

cacheson 41

Sunday 5 June 2016 16:42

Sounds to me like he's not worth it... But that's just my opinion.

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Love_L0ST 13

Sunday 5 June 2016 19:47

@ #15 yeah all men can read the mixed signals of women *sarcasm*

XxxT3rr4xxX 25

Sunday 5 June 2016 19:48

If he was able to fall for someone so easily after a one night stand. He isn't worth persuing. Don't waste your time OP. There are definitely better men out there.

DoomedGemini 37

Monday 6 June 2016 0:36

He didn't say he fell for someone? He was thinking about entering a relationship. The fact they had sex doesn't make that wrong, it doesn't seem op told him that they wanted more.

janfleury 19

Sunday 5 June 2016 20:55

You did call it a hook up.

adjwejaelwkdc 21

Sunday 5 June 2016 21:49

And when he asked that, just how hard did you hit him?

Crimsonb312 11

Sunday 5 June 2016 22:30

Honestly, you should have seen this coming. Pre-Maritial sex isn't a good idea if you don't want a massive case of grief after a breakup.

hugtrees13 16

Sunday 5 June 2016 22:59

If you wanted a relationship with him why hookup then? should establish if you want a relationship or not before sex.

dwayniea 2

Sunday 5 June 2016 23:06

some things in life should be clear

MistyMessedUp 9

Sunday 5 June 2016 23:42

I'm confused, someone please explain.

Catdragon 40

Monday 6 June 2016 0:15

never EVER "hook up" with a guy that you're in love with. odds are it won't lead to anything great. the idea of a hook up is that it's a one time thing meaning he was only looking for that and nothing else.