Sound alike he wanted an excuse to break up with you, if he's like that then good riddance I say, cos that bitch be trippin'.

Well, he's the psycho one. So just forget about him.

Good you got rid of him, OP.

Sounds like a guy who just assumes stuff. Sounds like you dodged a bullet.

well you clearly are a pro level stalker. you best friended his neighbor in advance, tending a friendship to full bloom over years just to ambush the object of your obsession. It's obvious.

1- Most men- even ones that jump to crazy conclusions- usually will listen to logic, especially if you hint about their intelligence. So I recommend doing so and then mentioning your friends house is right across the street, offer to show you by knocking on her door or having her call him, whatever works best for him, etc. Then say its just a "girl thing" to go to their best friends house for comfort (which it is). 2- If that best friend you went to see is a guy- then BIG BIG YDI!!! Your bf was probably pissed about that and didn't wanna say it to look jealous or lame. He, like all human beings in that situation (ALL people) probably wanted the upper hand. Girls should never go over to a guy "friends" house for comfort from their boyfriend. To us that's going to the arms of another man, regardless of whether or not you choose to touch his penis. It doesn't matter how YOU see him. Seriously. Any women reading this, if you value your relationships, trust a guys pov on this. Because this is something men are not flexible on. 3- If the best friend wasn't a guy, and if you tell him CUT AND DRY "my best friend, A GIRL, *her name*, lives across the street from you and I was visiting HER for comfort bcuz of the fight. I'm sorry we got into the fight but I wasn't stalking you nor would I, bcuz stalkings weird and I have better things to do. With that said, is that the real reason you dumped me or was that just an excuse for something bigger?" if he says yeah that's really why he dumped you, say "ok great, well do you wanna make up and go back out now that that's cleared up and you know I'm not a stalker?" 3A- If he says ok, then you guys are good and it was a simple misunderstanding. 3B- If he says he understands you weren't stalking him or appears to understand that, but still refuses to go back out with you (again, this is usually only something a female would do cuz its such a dishonest not-up-front move), then it means he broke up with you for another reason entirely, possibly another girl, possibly to get a break (usually another girl), or he just finds you annoying or boring or got tired of having sex with you. 3C- If he genuinely doesn't understand at all that its your best friend or refuses to listen at all, it's still most likely the one right above this (that he dumped you for another reason and is playing dumb) or that he really is just that dumb. I'll let your ego decide which one it wants to believe. Good luck!

Sucks

He's not worth it.

Dear OP, Harsh if there were no systemic d-bags symptoms prior to this incident; blind-sided is always brutally cruel. I guess you just never can tell with... uh... anyone. Ever. Yay humans?

He lacks logic if he broke up with you over that.