By inlovewithstupid - 04/09/2011 16:40 - United States

Today, my boyfriend bitched me out for being too controlling. Apparently, not only am I being unreasonable by not wanting him visiting strip clubs with his friends, I'm also just "looking for excuses to get mad" at him. FML
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Richard16 0

Get your self a male stripper... :)

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my_usagi 0

Going to strip clubs and getting hard to girls taking off their clothes and dancing on your lap is cheating. It's different than ****. So, if you don't mind your bf watching girls strip at a club, what's the difference between that and him going over to his friend "sarahs" apartment so she can strip for him and give him a dance? What it's not like he's sleeping with her, right? If he thinks she's psycho for that. Then she can go dance naked and cocktease men, and if he doesn't like it, then he's "psycho".

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Dizzys 4

My boyfriend and I go to strip clubs together. Men are very visual beings. They enjoy the visual stimulation of seeing many naked women at once. Emphasis on MANY. I might have **** he can look at but I can't multiply myself into one big frenzy of ****. I'm realistic about it. I know he's not going to get ALL of his visual stimulation from ONLY me. That's just unreasonable. Lighten up, OP. The strippers don't give a shit about him and there is no way he's leaving with one. He'll just look at some ****, and come home to you.

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Mokiikom_fml 8

Oh, come on!! It's a strip club, not a ***** house!! It's just some innocent fun! Why not tag along also? That way you'd know for sure that he's not cheating, and you'd both have fun. Strip clubs can be awesome for all genders. Unless he has one of those moronic "boys only/bros before hoes" affair going on with his friends, in which case they might get bitchy about a girl tagging along. But if that's the case they're just a bunch of ******* and you're wasting your time on the loser. At the very least, go to a male strip club if you don't enjoy the girl ones, but you need to loosen up and stop worrying about such small things.

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ponyh8r 5

Please. Like the strippers want him anyway. Let him go. Support single moms.

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steph_kat 1

I'd have to agree with your boyfriend here, without knowing any more than this little bit of info, and yes I'm a girl. It's just a strip club. If you trust him and don't think he'd actually do anything with the strippers, then what does it matter? He's hanging out with his friends and in the end comes home to you. Granted, he could be looking for an out here, but it sounds to me like you're very controlling and this was the last straw.

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dantegandalf 2

Your a stupid jealous bitch my wife goes with me all the time any woman who can't trust their man needs a new one

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THE_A_TEEN 27

Apperantly, everyone is entitled to their own opinions even the op, but since you got so many thumb's down, your opinion doesnt matter.

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sleepingparrot 7

And you're behaving like an ignorant jerk. If you can't even be respectful in your reply don't open your mouth. Honestly, I'd like to know how you're married if that is how you speak to people.

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erikaa916 0

199- couldn't have said it better myself.

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SteelCladAngel 0

Sounds exactly like my ex, I like to feel a man doesn't need to look at other women to get his jollies in.

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leadman1989 15

Take other out of that sentence and see if it makes any sense. Just because two people choose to be monogamous DOESN'T mean that the other automatically becomes ONLY attracted to them. If my girlfriend wanted strippers and a little fun if I trusted her I'd have no problem but at the end of the day it's not my decision she' an adult and so is op's boyfriend.

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MarioDragon 14

I dunno about your adult friends but all mine stopped going to "titty bars" and "strip clubs" when they were 25. They actually GREW UP, stayed with whoever they were going out with, and now won't even look at those kind of places.

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leadman1989 15

1. I'm 21 2. Throwing out an arbitrary subjective number and then suggesting it "childish" to do something after that is pointless 3 I'm sure that's why the divorce rate is around 50 percent because people grow out of being human and sexual beings. The actually mature thing to do is be a trusting loving partner and if your partner is just too extreme for you then the relation ship needs to end you both need to find compatible partners.

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xrainbowshadowx 17

1) Buy a pole 2) Learn to strip 3) Buy your gear 4) Give him a free show

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Egnar 19

I don't find too much excitement in strip clubs and really only go if I'm invited to a bachelor party but I have to side with your boyfriend here - A strip club is nothing more than a little bit of adult entertainment and anybody secure in their own body and/or relationships should feel comfortable not having to have their boyfriend on a leash.

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youprobablydidit 3

It's not really about being on a leash so much as respect. If he knows she feels uncomfortable going to that kind of place, why can't he resist it anyway? Her feelings should be more important than another girl's boobs. And honestly, if he's the type to get so up in arms about something that shouldn't be such an issue, then maybe she has a reason to be insecure.

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maddieking 2

I've let my boyfriend go to the strip club with his friends it's not a big deal. He isn't doing anything bad and I trust him. If he wanted to go all the time i would be mad but every once and awhile isn't a big thing.

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