I think you're confusing strippers with prostitutes

Not all strippers are dirty and "full of itchy surprises"

strippers are always dirty ... you know those types of girls have no self respect if they are willing to take their clothes off and grind on strangers for a buck ... the only difference between them and prostitutes is you dont get laid at the end of the night by the person you gave your money too ... of the few girls i do know that are strippers i dont know any that maintain good relationships or havent been around (case in point, my cousin is dating a stripper my other cousin and about 8 of their friends have all been with)

I know a lot of women who are strippers because it's great $ and they have a kid to support and a deadbeat ex- quit your hating

You are a horrible person. You can't categorize an entire group because of 1 girl. Just FYI strippers do not ALL have horrible relationships. You are an ignorant person of you think that all strippers are the same with low self esteem. And of you think they only make a buck, you are sadly mistaken.

74, you're probably the creepy old middle aged man who associates with a lot of strippers.

I agree. A lot of strippers would be dirty. I actually know a lot of male friends who have gone home with a stripper. And im guessing that i wasnt the first time the strippers have done that either so who knows how many men theyve been with. And a lot of people i know go to certain strip clubs because the strippers do "extras".

If I was the girl, I would be worried about these "extras"... If none of those are present, I'm on the guy's side for previously mentioned reasons. Otherwise, he's a cheating douchebag. As long as he's coming home to you, I see no problem.

And you look like a douchebag!!

Says the guy holding up a camera to the mirror With no shirt... O irony.

You sound like a pussy, sorry.

I agree with OP's man sounding like a douchebag.... Does that make me a douchebag too? Don't be ignorant. Leave the guy and his profile picture alone.

In my opinion, it's a boys night out. She obviously doesn't trust him enough. If he was getting lap dances and stuff then yeah, I'd be upset. But if he is just going with his buddies then she has nothing to worry about. It seems like he just wants to have a night out with friends.

16 I respectfully disagree. If OP is dating the kind of guy who can't see beyond his own dick far enough to bang a stripper, maybe she should find a new boyfriend. But controlling him isn't the way to go about this, it'll make him resentful and he'll probably just go without telling her. Then OP's really ******.

Just because she doesn't like the idea of an attached man going to a strip club, especially if he's dating her, doesn't mean she's insecure. Some women either think it's gross or they think there's no need for it if the guy's got everything he wants with her. Others simply don't understand why guys do it, whether they agree with the male reasoning or not.

@#26 Yeah, it's called being controlling and repressed. Exactly what OP is being. There's nothing wrong with strip clubs. I'm a woman and I don't mind them at all, in fact I find them fun. (No, I'm not a lesbian. lol It's fine for someone and their boyfriend to go to such clubs together. It's not like it's a ***** house!)

45 - Just because you like something doesn't automatically mean everyone else has to. Who died and made you queen? Some people like it, some don't, and both are perfectly fine.

I got thumbed up? :[]! -jizzed-

They are 'fingering' your comment. ;) lol

While wearing flavored gloves.

You don't get laid much, do you?