Don't listen to her - Don't invite yourself to your boyfriends get together. While some couples do go to strip clubs together, and thats cool, the majority of guys go as a "Guys-Night-Out" type of thing. . Just like girls like to go dancing and innocently grind up against strangers. Inviting yourself to go to the bar will not only make your boyfriend resent you it'll make his friends more careful about inviting HIM out and urging him to go behind your back.

Many women feel like places like Strip Clubs and Hooters degrade women. Personally, I don't like to go to places like that, I've never even been to a Hooters, as I don't particularly find the sex appeal in someone trying to get money from me by being half naked, however I find it to be the exact opposite. Instead of being degrading to women I find it empowering and I have the utmost respect for women in positions whom will do whatever it takes to be able to pay the bills and are comfortable enough in their bodies to handle a job like that.

Who's to say she DOESN'T know what's going on at the strip club? Think before you speak.

Its a restaurant I like their food... their theme is attractive women nothing more nothing less. Besides if you see it as empowering why wouldn't you try to support them?

Of course she knows what goes on in there. But like I said people's imaginations run wild and they often blow things out of proportion.

Being upset that he's on a leash when he should be capable of making his own unadulterated choices is totally him trying to get his girlfriend mad, yep.

Lol yeh but he is totally doing it behind ur back!

Tell me, does your husband give you as many restrictions as you give him, or is it a one way street?

And he is only allowed to touch his dick if you give him permission or to aim when he's peeing right ??!!

Thank you. I don't understand why someone would do that when they got a wife/girlfriend at home that LOVES them actually and you can get that stuff for free. And I'm excluding all "wanting guys for money" women.

Thank you! My husband and I have the same agreement. He knows how I feel about it and chooses not to go. It's called caring about your partner's feelings. And if not going is going to hurt him as much as him going hurts OP? Then seriously, where are this man's priorities?

Same with me and my man. We don't watch actual **** together, just hentai. **** is just nasty to us. As far as the "what if she's not home and he's horny?" arguement, how hard is it to wait a while till she gets there? It's not like it's gonna fall off or anything. Sure you might get blue balls every once in a while but in my past experience that only happens when you're right about to and you get cockblocked. How do you think chicks feel when we get super horny? We gotta just stick it out. But yeah. Some people need to have some self discipline/control. Besides, you could use that time you have waitingfor her to set up a romantic atmosphere it something and then totalllyyyyy take her to pound town when she gets back >;3

#61, I totally agree with you. I've been with my bf for three years and the way I see it is, why should he have to go out and see skanks he can't touch when he can get from me? we have a very active sex life, and I never turn him away. I do not approve of him going to strip clubs, because I know what goes on, so he doesn't go out of respect to me. he also wouldn't like the idea of me paying for a lap dance from a strange man when I could easily get one from him? i also don't approve of him watching ****. what's the point of masturbating to visual stimulation when you have your wife/gf who's more then willing to give you great sex? like the saying goes, "why go out for burgers when you have steak at home."

No shit! Wtf is wrong with all these women! My hubby watches **** if I'm at work or out and he is horny...well I'm not there so wateva! ...if I'm home and he wants to watch **** for something different il watch it with him, he goes on boys nights to strip clubs and I go out on girls nights to clubs to dance.... We come home to each other, are always honest, we tell each other if we think someone is hot .... We have 100% trust in each other because we are honest and give each other freedom :)