By chiara - 26/08/2015 10:25 - New Zealand - Christchurch

Today, my boyfriend broke up with me. I spent the day sobbing in my bedroom and talking shit about him on Facebook after blocking him. He ended up changing his mind and calling me, asking me to take him back. Now I have to awkwardly explain to everyone that we're back together. FML
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Half of the time, that kind of stuff does happen and people do end up getting back together soon after as long as it wasn't over anything serious. If I was him, I would break up with you again for talking about him like that so fast.

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If he will break your heart then change his mind again, he doesn't care enough to think it through meaning that he didn't care to give himself time to decide. But still YDI for dissing him the first day or at all really.

I'm all for venting to my friends when I'm upset. But in person, to my close friends only. You two probably have mutual friends on FB, so I'm sure he already knows.

StupidUsername89 23

YDI and your life sucks to bad you had to be a bitch hope you delete the comments soon

Guess now we know why he broke up with you. sounds like your a cold vindictive woman who reacts before thinking things through. Bet he gets in trouble big time if he's out late before you ask him why. But if you did ask him he'd have a valid reason (not that he needs to explain himself just to ease your insecurities) like visiting someone in the hospital or working late. These are just examples but I bet I'm right.

This is a lesson, next time do not rush to show ur anger.

I wouldn't have taken him back. Okay I would have. But I'm a hypocrite.

That's why you don't smear someone on social networks, regardless of how you feel. It's immature and only comes back to bite you.

everton99 16

Sit down and talk with him about why yall broke up. If he doesn't have a god reason you may want to reconsider. I did this with my last serious girlfriend and it ended up causing us more pain in the long run when we eventually broke up for good.

I can think of two situations. Either he's a pretty decent guy and you were talking shit about him purely out of anger, in which case YDI for being so petty. Or he's plagued general asshole-ishness which made your posts (while mean) at least truthful, in which case YDI for taking him back.

Umm, grow a pair and tell him off? Sorry, but you deserve it. If he broke up with you once he's going to do it again.