By FMeRight? - 28/12/2015 20:15 - United States - San Francisco

Today, my boyfriend finally proposed to me in front of his whole family with the ring his mother had helped him pick out. Two hours later, I found emails of nudes from another women that had been sent to him a week prior, on his phone. Our flight for home leaves in a week. FML
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cOOkiEzRgOOd 22

People like that are not worth your time whatsoever. I'm sorry you got to the point of engagement with this fool.

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andrmac 25

Confront him and find out if he's decided or will decide to be serious about your relationship or not. If not move on get out before marriage. So many people marry young and think they can make it work out after... That is not the case the relationship needs to work before in order for a marriage to last.

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sillygirl247 14

Maybe he didn't ask for the nudes... You should ask him first. Hopefully he is a honest person op.

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Koizumiii 23

There is a chance that this woman was just trying to get OP's fiancé to choose her instead by sending nudes. It's not unheard of, and he might not have mentioned it because he was ashamed. Unless he reciprocated I wouldn't give up without asking him about it and getting some concrete answers. If he did cheat, I'm sorry OP :(

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drummergirl818 4

Take pictures of the messages with your phone. Smash his phone. Tell him to tell his mother why his phone's broken.

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deathperado 0

And you get to meet some cops that way, crazy lady. Seriously....

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Govcheeze 18

Aside from the fact that thats illegal, this email doesn't mean he's cheating. Emails can be one way, someone could have just sent it to him without permission...

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dreggleston1 17

You got what you deserved nosey

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Grayness_ 26

All comments are going to tell you to leave him and blah blah blah. BUT what if the girl had sent the pictures and he just told her that he was getting married and just forgot to delete the pictures? Reason why I'm saying this is because it happened to me once. Sometimes we're pretty busy and forget to do things.

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TripleDallas123 15

You all give horrible Relationship Advice. Stop automatically assuming that he asked for the nudes or is communicating with another female. This is an email, as someone else said, it could be spam of some sort. Who sends nudes or communicated over email anyway? Also, OP never said they were communicating with the other woman, who said he didn't just receive them randomly. Stop jumping to conclusions so quickly and take into consideration other variable.

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Dixie_Ann 1

well, if he is in fact cheating you can sell the ring for a plane ticket home

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xelarea 14

I sincerely hope you can put a stop to this immediately. Assuming he's involved with it and not just blindly receiving things from random skanks. My husband was involved and I wouldn't let him get away with it, especially with it being someone he had a past with. It was either me or the toys. He chose me. I still don't fully trust him whatsoever but I didn't want to end a relationship I'd worked so hard on unless he was doing more than just talking dirty and getting pictures. If he'd started becoming emotionally or physically involved, you bet I'd leave his ass right away. Don't let him get away with it. If he begins to hide his phone and act suspicious, you need to take action. Letting a player string you along into something you invest in is painful. Have your things at home in your own space so you can move them out if needed without much trouble. Don't mix them with his for a while.

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LT_Silva101 18

Don't jump to conclusions. How do you know he asked for them?

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