By hannah - 14/04/2013 15:21 - United Kingdom

Today, my boyfriend of 17 months, the first guy to tell me he loves me, the guy I lost my virginity to, the only guy whose parents I've met, told me we should stop 'hooking up' because it's weird that I was telling everyone we were a couple and it was ruining his chances of finding a girlfriend. FML
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hannah321 0

hi, i'm the girl who wrote this originally (i've since got an account so changed my name- maybe some people won't believe that but whatever) and i just want to say in response to some people that it was VERY clear on both sides that we were a couple, we were not friends with privileges.. also i am not a stalker, i just wanted to specify exactly how long we'd been together because it emphasises just how shitty what he did was.. like someone else said, a year doesn't really explain that fully. maybe he was using me for sex and i was practise, but i'm not as young or naive as some people here seem to think... this isn't my first relationship, but it was my first really serious one hence meeting parents, having sex etc etc.. i thought what i felt towards him was mutual, and i think if many of you had known us as a couple you would be very surprised about what has happened, most people were always commenting on how much he seemed to adore me. right now i have no idea what his motivations were, but everytime i speak to him i want to stab him.. so im refraining from speaking to him or seeking an explanation at the minute SO thanks to everyone who's been supportive, **** knows what his problem is but im getting over it seeing as he's been such a dick to me, and i just posted him this link, so any extra abuse toward him would be welcome.. ha

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lnm701 0

What an asshole. You're better off without him. Good luck on that girlfriend search, buddy.

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Damn Bonny lass. where is he at? i'll set his ass striaght for you. Don't worry...you will find some one who actually deserves you sooon!

oh my god. now im sad. i just got out of an amazing elationship recently myself, thinking it was The one that ******* sucks im sorry =

rachellaurenn 0

This makes me sad. I'm so sorry. You'll find someone better, I promise.

__susan__ 0

has the word murder crossed your mind?

Guys kind of suck, don't they? I've been with one guy for almost a year now. It's an exclusive not a relationship... or something. I'm here until he finds someone else... and he wants to "play relationship," because he likes the feeling. He's the closest person to me and the one person I know I can count on if I need anything. He'd be almost perfect if he didn't insist that I was "just a friend" who he happens to be very attracted to. And whom he loves everything about. And is the first person he goes to when anything is wrong. Maybe your bf (or whatever) was either confused or just scared and running away. He wouldn't be the first. Yeah, he's an asshole for not being clear about what things were, if it wasn't in fact a relationship. Maybe I give guys too many chances. Maybe you just need someone who has grown up a little more and has the balls to be honest. Good luck. There are always other fish in the sea.

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NikkiNik 0

Wow! didnt see that one coming. So what did you do? I would have hit him, no wait, I'd get my guy friends to hit him. It would hurt more that just me hitting him

Dick move, sounds like a real cheeser of a dude.... hopefully you learned something from it.. chose wisely next time and hopefully you'll be much happier. GL

Peanutlovers 0

uh no one year anniversary? no month anniversaries? no..."i want to be with you always" what kind of fake relationship was that =) i don't believe this